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Women Empowerment

I have a crush, so this girl we worked on a project together but i was enjoying it and being funny and at same time being serious, basically i acted weirdly just to impress her and make her laugh
Then i met her IRL and didn't recognise her and also there was an opportunity to hangout and only two of us were there but i declined because at that time i didn't want to get into a relationship and she had to go alone. So it felt bad doing that but if i had Said yes then she would think i am into here which i realised later on that she is my crush and her thoughts kept coming after on. I never met her after that and i am sure now that i like her as if i see a pic of her with some guy i get jealous,etc. What should I do, approach her ?

Crush

Me(23M) and my girlfriend(23F) started dating 9 months ago.  We were PG mates. We finished our college 8 months ago. She's 700 km away from my home. Due to the long distance we kinda had a fair amount of bumps in our love life. Last October my dog got sick with CDV ( it's like AIDS for dogs, untreatable).  I was taking my dog for almost all the big veterinary hospitals in Chennai but nothing worked. Due to all the traveling I couldn't talk to my girlfriend. After a long heavy run I had to put my dog to sleep (euthanasia), It was the hardest choice for me. 
After that, for a week she and I connected to our love again. But this time I felt that she was kinda distant. I was really in a bad mental health cause of my dog's loss (she was my whole world). 
The second week I got a job in Assam, I desperately needed a break from my dog and my distant girlfriend so I took the job and went to Assam for 21 days. 
After coming back from Assam she was more distant from me. That made my mental health even worse. I kept asking her, she said she's fine. But I know she was not.  A month has passed. 
After that, this time I got a job for another state. And I told her to use this 21 days to see what went wrong in our relationship. She said okay.  While I was working on a job she was busy with her family gathering and trips and long bike rides.
 I returned on Feb 14 which was my birthday she didn't  reply to me. So I got mad and said some things which I'm not proud of. She got angry and said she needs one week of time. After a week she said again I need one week to think.
 I wanted to communicate with her for the whole four months but she always said TEXT ME. Always cut my calls. Avoided problem solving calls. 

Due to all the trips and bike rides she got a cold infection which put her into the hospital. Now she says, I will talk to you once I get to my home. 

Honestly guys, I don't know what did I do wrong with her ?. I apologized for my bad behaviour. I constantly overthink about her. All my friends say, try to be patient with her. But i don't know how ?? 

BTW, she was raised by good loving parents and I was raised by verbally abusive parents. I really wanted to create my own family with her. But it seems like I'm wrong.


Depression

will someone miss you if youre gone? 

3am Thoughts

Why do people cheat and lie and betray our trusts when they were the only one who were interested first and came into your life first. 
Here's my story - Found out before 1 month that the guy who told he loves me and wants to marry me was double timing me. He cheated on me multiple times that too in the initial stages of dating. It was just 3 months of our relationship. I caught him red handed still he never admitted that he cheated on me. 
Now the thought of him lying to me numerous times when and how it started  kills me. The other girl was with him before me or she came into his life after me,  I don't know anything. 

For my clarity i decided to confront that girl as she was also unaware about him double timing on her too but after doing that instead of hearing me he told her to block me and she followed him and then after that he also blocked me from every platform.  I am sure that he badmouthed me, made me bad in front of her and manipulated her to do so. He must have told her that i was behind him and made me look desperate in front of her. 
It's because When we were dating he used to call all his ex's gold digger and that they were behind him but now i got to know the reality that he is a playboy who chases every other girl and fakes love, gets into relationship with multiple women and when things don't go his way he badmouth them when asked by his new prey.

Never knew these kind of mind games. I am totally hurt and all these thoughts are killing me from inside. Why do people play with emotions instead of showing their true intentions. 
Before coming into the relationship I used to tell him always that my past was not good and that I am not interested in any kind of relationship and we should stay just friends. But he just made me believe that he has genuine feelings for me. I used to have so many trust tissues regarding relationships and now after this I just don't know whom to trust anymore and I think I never be able to trust anyone now.
 I just expected one thing from him and that was the truth even after he cheated on me, I just told him that I won't say anything just admit and speak the truth as I am an over thinker but still he didn't admit. He kept on lying to my face. I literally requested that person to just speak the truth  because as an over thinker I know what we go through when the questions remain unanswered. 

Kuch baaton se **Anjaan** rehna hi acha hai...
Kabhi kabhi sab kuch jaan lena bhi *takleef* deta hai.. 🙂

Poetry

A Good Heart ! An helping hand ! Truthfulness !

Are invalid now a days ! 

Cheat or get cheated  ! That is how world runs now !

Idk how i am going to survive in this...
Wishing people like me more strength and love !

Am always here for people like us.. ❤️

Feel free to connect !!

Mental Wellbeing

Hello friends
I think after a lot of time, finally the connect option has started.
So find your friends with same interests and for long convo connect ho jaao

Happy

The funniest shit was my male straight best friend asking me out for s*x when he literally knew i loved him. He thought I'd fu*k with him just coz he was the one I loved... Blocked him and never saw back.

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