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@anonymously6

So I liked this guy since 3 years and I couldnā€™t confess but 3 months ago i finally confessed my feelings and I got to know that he also liked me, so we started seeing each other and it was going pretty well. Before him I was in a long term relationship of 7 years which he knew of. So one day we were just sitting and he came with the topic of my ex and suddenly said that he canā€™t do it with me anymore because he wishes that his partner should be pure as he didnā€™t date anyone before me so he should also be the first one his partner will date. o he told me he wants to break up just because I was with someone else 3 years ago. I feel so unwanted, he said things that really have hurt me, my self esteem is just ruined. Iā€™ve been crying since that day and Iā€™m trying to call and text him and heā€™s not replying any of my calls. My health is also being affected. I really thought he will be the one for me. I donā€™t know where I went wrong. Just because I was with someone for long term that means now I canā€™t be with someone for my whole life? I really miss him. What should I do please help. I feel like Iā€™m dying.

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Anonymous
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Exactly my point also.

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Anonymous
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Hey! Itā€™s okay to cry. But you should try and look at the fact that he said he wanted to date someone who was never in a relationship and he already knew about it while getting into a relationship. Basically itā€™s just toxic donā€™t you think?
Please try to forget him. Youā€™ll get a guy who wonā€™t be affected by the fact that you had a relationship before.
If you somehow convince this guy and get back with him I feel that it wonā€™t be a good relation.
I just want you to see the facts and decide whatā€™s good for you and your mental health.
Take care.

@anonymously6
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Iā€™m calling him continuously since then and he is ignoring all of my calls. Should I stop calling now or keep trying to make it work?

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Anonymous
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I donā€™t think you should call him. Just look at the red flags behen. He knew you were in a relationship in the past but still came in to a relationship with you and later broke up for the reason that you were in a relationship in the past. Like what?

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