What is your view?
In every situation, should we try to look a fault in ourselves or in the situation ?
Should we blame ourself or the other person or the fate?
The problem lies in kooking for something or someone to blame. Just accept that bad things can and will happen and take responsibility for your actions
*looking
I would recommend rather than putting someone at fault, look for the solutions, they increased the quality of the relationships and the situation and your mentality but if you’re stubborn in the idea that someone has to be put at fault then it’s the other person or the situation