Today I needed people to help me. A friend of mine denied it because of some genuine reasons. Now I am thinking about that reason, was it real or she just gave excuses. If those reasons are genuine then okay, but what if she wanted to get rid of me… Am I like a burden on them? I can’t ask her directly, but now I am overthinking about it. I just hope helping me doesn’t bother people around me. I get deeply offended when someone denies something.
Simran @st1199
If you are close to the person, the chances of eliminating one out of the two (genuine or excuse) should be easy. If not, you might want to discuss and clear the air. Because you shall feel hurt and sad, and even if you try to let go, you will keep it deep inside, which, in my opinion, isn’t helpful.
Have you also considered why you feel offended? As in life, there will be instances when people might upfront deny something or (in)directly through a subtle hint, and what are your reactions and how you handle it will matter at the end.
Not that hard to check if reason genuine or not
U yourself told reason is genuine
Hmm
