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Niha Shariff @whatnihdoes

So yesterday I posted about how I feel I have been suffering cause of my long distance relationship with my husband and I got replies saying why can’t I be with him, I can do video calls and so on…
I can be with him, I obviously do video call to him
The reason I can’t live with him is because he lives in Kuwait and there is no family visa currently or visit visa.
So we have to be in this kind of situation.
It’s going to be a year since we married now and 4 months since we met 👍🏻😅
This kinda hurts me the situation hurts me
And once you get used to living with someone it kinda is a torture to sleep or live without them in person
I really miss him and love him a lot
I accept the situation I just lose myself in this process of waiting sometimes 😞🥹❤️

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Raza Khan @thegentleguide

Just relax for now. Keep checking for visa applications on visit visa. Also, a way of spreading love in a relationship is to write him letters if that’s possible. Secondly, you guys could watch a movie together on discord. Additionally, try and look prettier for him when you video call him so that he’ll be attracted to you more. Be sweet to him. Also, he should be making attempts from his side as well to keep the spark up.

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Bhavna P. @bhavna_pande

I understand waiting can be incredibly painful. This is a tough phase, and it’s important not to isolate yourself. Surround yourself with supportive people who care about you. While it might seem challenging now, remember that this difficult phase will eventually pass. Take one day at a time, and be kind to yourself.

Take care
Psychologist Bhavna Pande


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