So needed to put this out… I have a guy friend I work with who is married and i have never said anything or behaved in any way that would give him any sign that I’m interested…
I know his wife and even met his whole family and I have only looked at him as a good friend…
but he says weird things like let’s hug or hold him tight whenever I have sat behind him on bike and not hold on to the seat of the bike… I brush it off by joking to not be weird.
But I’m really feeling uncomfortable with all this and I don’t know why he is behaving this way… I feel disgusted
We are in the same office and same team… so it’s even more awkward
He wants more than friendship, red flag
Kyojuro_Rengoku @modern_sprout
Cause, his motivate since that start is clear.
He is just implementing his plans since you both got a bond, which doesn’t brings u a thought to avoid him now.
Stay away from him, avoid him , like talk to other guy people and remember never tell this to his wife as at end of the day she will always be with him,no matter what.
Ps -Do share if he had doing smthing bad
Sneha Naik @daffodils_dew
Girl… I exactly know this… Stay away. Stay away. RUN at full speed. Guys like these, even if they are friendly… will eventually turn it on you. You will end up in a trap. Mostly most men have physical appetite even if it’s a simple hug. Don’t encourage. Not all men. But most. So draw the line girl. Else… Usko sar pe baitne mei der nahi lagegi.
Thank you everyone for responding. Yes I told him off and said I can’t ever be friends anymore.
I have felt that maybe I gave him too much space and brushed it off so many times but not anymore
He did say sorry but I can’t ever be comfortable around him anymore
Sneha Naik @daffodils_dew
Good job. It is very mature step you have taken. Let him know that there is a difference in friendly comfort zone and making a girl uncomfortable. He cannot take advantage of your closeness. You really did great by speaking it out. Else guys take it for granted and then say that girls chase them. Protect your self respect always. Lots of love.
Thank you… means a lot when someone validates and understands our feelings
