So needed to put this out… I have a guy friend I work with who is married and i have never said anything or behaved in any way that would give him any sign that I’m interested…
I know his wife and even met his whole family and I have only looked at him as a good friend…
but he says weird things like let’s hug or hold him tight whenever I have sat behind him on bike and not hold on to the seat of the bike… I brush it off by joking to not be weird.
But I’m really feeling uncomfortable with all this and I don’t know why he is behaving this way… I feel disgusted
We are in the same office and same team… so it’s even more awkward
He wants more than friendship, red flag
Kyojuro_Rengoku @modern_sprout
Cause, his motivate since that start is clear.
He is just implementing his plans since you both got a bond, which doesn’t brings u a thought to avoid him now.
Stay away from him, avoid him , like talk to other guy people and remember never tell this to his wife as at end of the day she will always be with him,no matter what.
Ps -Do share if he had doing smthing bad
Thank you everyone for responding. Yes I told him off and said I can’t ever be friends anymore.
I have felt that maybe I gave him too much space and brushed it off so many times but not anymore
He did say sorry but I can’t ever be comfortable around him anymore
Thank you… means a lot when someone validates and understands our feelings
