Probably the worst compliment is when some girl talks about her any insecurity and some guy comments that boys like it that way don’t worry.
Like bruh my insecurity isn’t an insecurity because I’m worried about what men think?!? That’s genuinely the most annoying
The thing about insecurities is that everyone has them so you don’t have to comfort them in any way unless you have something productive to say about the specific insecurity. Otherwise just listen to them, listening is enough and agreeing that it can be tough living with insecurities