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Anonymous

Need some advice ๐Ÿ™
I recently made my first girlfriend just about a month ago. Two days ago i got to know about her past which included cheating on her ex,sending n*de photos and videos to her friend and friends casting director friend and maybe 1 or 2 more friends. Now i donโ€™t know what to do? I have been stressed ever since i knew about these things. Please need some proper advice ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™
P.S. Iโ€™m 22 and half

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Talk out things and know about the story from both sides first. If sheโ€™s actually honest with you ,you can clear the misunderstandings if not break things off

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Anonymous
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She didnโ€™t tell everything earlier like sending n**es and other things
Now i donโ€™t know how to grasp these things

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Anonymous
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Okโ€ฆ Do you really trust your source of information more than the girl you loveโ€ฆ Like no disrespect here but getting straight to point asking a girl abt such things might hurt herโ€ฆ Like if its all lie youโ€™d loose your girl also but if itโ€™s true I really hope she tells you everything and hope you both get over this phase real quick ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Anonymous
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She told me these things herself

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Anonymous
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Break it offโ€ฆ What if youโ€™re just another guy to herโ€ฆ Youโ€™ll be the one who ends up being hurtโ€ฆ Yes mistakes are done by everyone of us but those shouldnโ€™t ruin us or make us doubt ourselves. You really should move on

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I was in a similar position. But I ignored all these things and loved her a lot. We were together for 3 years. These years were the best of my life because I grew as a person a lot (because she was very helpful and motivating person). Then things started to go the other way, we started fighting a lot over small small things. It became toxic. Then I got to know that she cheated on me and her excuse was that I wasnโ€™t available emotionally for her during that time. So my advice for you is very simple. If she is a good person who can make you a lot better and provide good memories, keep her and be in relationship with her. But expect nothing more. Because the moment things go other way, she will cheat on you because this is something that she has done before and unconsciously she will do it again.

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Anonymous
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Thts why Iโ€™m having doubts
What if i get the same treatment like the other guy

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