Rohit @rohit199
My brother doesnβt socialise at all, and thatβs affecting his mental health. He has stopped doing classes and its all mess. I just donβt know how to deal with this, any comments?
Rohit @rohit199
I kinda try to. I always have long talks with him, trying to clear his mind. But the only part thatβs been bugging me is his studies.
Rohit @rohit199
Not really sure, he slowly got himself left out. And now he says that he doesnβt feel like doing anything.
Rohit @rohit199
He doesnβt have friends, all online since he joined college, so no concrete person who can tell me more about him. Besides I think I know about him more than anyone, but still not aware of the cause.
Rohit @rohit199
Yeah, think youβre right. But I think even he doesnβt know whatβs happening with him. When I ask him about this, he gets confused always.
Rohit @rohit199
No, trust me. Heβs is quite fond of talking to me. We sometime have long convos, and he even tells me that he feels relieved after these. But he just is not sure about his thoughts
Rohit @rohit199
No, never. I even suggestion him several career paths and he chose one himself. Nothing else we could force him into
Rohit @rohit199
He does sleep well. Yeah he uses his phone too much. But I never stopped him. Because I used to use it the same amount too π . And I donβt think checking his phone is a good idea.
Rohit @rohit199
Yeah, true thatβ¦ guess I need to find the clues, be it from his phone or from his behaviour. Btw thanks for sharing your thoughts, it was very helpful! π€
Rohit @rohit199
Yupp. High hopes buddy π
Mayeb he is going through something. Stop forcing him to do things. When heβll feel comfortable heβll talk.
Rohit @rohit199
Yeah. I donβt really force him for anything but Iβm really concerned about his studies. He was a topper until 12th, and now I often get calls about his non compliance and absence from lectures.