That @notaqueen
My boyfriend makes me feel guilty by saying that he had to compromise so much because of my bad past… and whenever i confront him… he say he’ll compromise just won’t let me feel it… It is healthy in relationship ?
Nah i don’t think so it is a healthy one bcz if i am helping someone or i am compromising i won’t tell them but if i am telling i am showing them these things. it means i am thinking that you are inferior to me and its not like you aren’t understanding you also understood your mistakes but why he have to point them out…
That @notaqueen
Whenever he got little hurt by my any actions or he gets angry he say all this things he had done for me… to change me in better way… all that efforts he made
I don’t think so its changing you in a better way since its making you feel guilty…
You should try discussing this with him if you care for your bond…
That @notaqueen
Like as i said before… i was imature and childish… and do and speak without thinking… but now i can see some maturity in me because of him… he used different and difficult way to make me this mature… and now he says that he had to compromise
Tell me one thing why you are not discussing with him that you feels bad whenever he says something like this?
That @notaqueen
I discusse this with him… but then he says all things which he did and make me feel like I’ve done worst and sometimes he even say all promises we made… to marry each other and all… and say he’ll sucide if I’ll leave and all blame will be on me only
If your past is a “compromise” for him hes basically seeing you as someone lower than him not for some particular reason just because you are you and will always think he’s better and he’s settled for someone lower than his worth and he’ll make sure you get hurt enough to realize he’s above. He’s being toxic and it’ll affect you mentally leave him.
That @notaqueen
Yes I think you are saying true… thank you for your advice
Yup, no matter how good a relationship seems if the other person is devaluing you you should never stay.
As an Indian girl, I assure you that is the least of things to be ashamed of. You have done nothing wrong and this boy is emotionally dominating you , that’s all. Get out of this toxicity and run as fast as you can
