Its been 2 years already and i thought i am over her but there some questions of which i want to know the answers but now its too late and also i m in contact with her till now she have a new boyfriend and now im friend zoned and stuck because at first she didnt told me about his boyfriend and was like i dont have anyone blah blah so i thought i can help but now its all messed up.
listen. breathe. in and out. in and out.
there will be times where you’ll think you’ve found the one - the person who understands you inside out, resonates with you, and seems simply like your destiny.
but you might not be the one for her. life is constantly moving at a rapid pace; people change and grow, and she has moved forward as well. you also have to move forward; which is difficult, especially since you haven’t gotten closure; which is why its been 2 years.
go out and meet some people. hang out with friends, grab a bite to eat, pick up a sport, or an old hobby.
this is probably an unpopular opinion, but i personally believe that love is a choice. we decide to push aside the person’s flaws, blind ourselves in their good qualities, and thoroughly immerse ourselves inside our partner. its us who choose to put effort into a bond and relationship, as we fall deeper. it is accompanied by intense and strong emotion, but ultimately, i believe its a choice.
i think the reason you haven’t been able to move on, is because you haven’t met another person who has taken that priority and effort on your list. don’t bottle up your emotion; let it out, and then push forward.
you got this, warrior <3
Thanks ✌🏻✌🏻 i think i can try again to move on. Maybe it was an unpopular opinion but i think it is a fact.
