I really love my parents now but as a kid they used to take out all there anger in me and like beat me with belts and for hours. Idk i am not able to forget it. I just keeps replaying whenever something happens memories come back. What can i really do in this situation?
Harasees Kaur @amol
As someone who has faced this, I think the best thing to do is be independent and start a life where u are not dependent on them for anything. Don’t expect anything from them, but be in touch. Talk briefly, and indirectly, try explaining them how u feel…… if u think, they’ll understand then maybe one day confront them about it. Feel free to reach out to me whenever u want to. I am here for you❤️
Thankyou so much for this. I know i have to be independent anyway and if you need help with anything i am here too if you wanna share something❤️.
Harasees Kaur @amol
For sure my love❤️
Due to your anonymous status, I cant send you a request unfortunately. But in case you ever feel lonely, u know how to connect with me! U are not alone in this okay? Keep smiling☺️
Regan @regs555
hey queen!
I’m so sorry this has happened to you. it might take a while for you to forget what happened and that’s okay, and I know it can be a pain having flashbacks about it. when you feel comfortable maybe ask them about it and tell them how this has effected you.
if you ever need someone to talk to I’m always here for you!
I really cried while reading this. I have confronted my mom about this she says she is sorry for what she did at that time she wasn’t able to control that. As for my father i never confronted about the beating and all but i told him that i feel like you dont love me, he said isn’t your mother’s love enough for you? I felt soo badd. And this thing happened long ago but still it feels i keep remembering all this.
Regan @regs555
awww your too sweet! I felt so bad when I read what your dad said. I’m glad that your mother has forgiven you about what’s happened! Also sometimes finding little things you enjoy may help you stop remembering it, as I said tho it might take some time to fully cope with what’s happening for you. even going for a walk or listening to some music to get all those thoughts or flashbacks off your mind. I know it might not sound like much but trust me finding something that you enjoy doing is helpful. if it’s getting to much you could contact a help-line or even me if you need!
