I have this huge crush on a new colleague who is a guy. So Iβm gay but not out cause I am not in a position to come out right now. I have no idea if this new guy is gay (Unlikely) but my urges are outta control! What to do?
Third option π€¦π
Why have people actually voted for it xD
What language is this?
Donβt know what your last line meant but I see the word predator, so Iβll clarify: Last option is only added here as a joke and the emoji says it wouldnβt ever be more than a kiss (even in a joke). I am not actually going to force anyone into anything sexual EVER - chill!
I think first just get to know him? Be friends?
Approach him about it, if he is not a gay, then you can leave the jobπ. So you wonβt see him every day and he is no longer in your thought.