I have fucked up my life.
I m Socially Awkward, Unemployed at 26, Living with parents, Zero friends and zero self confidence now.
I m constantly living in humiliation, loneliness, and depression since last 3 years. I lost all my friends, I never had any relationship, I have social anxiety since childhood.
Constant failures are killing me. I can’t see any good future currently. I don’t want these suicidal thoughts. I don’t have anyone whom I can tell anything about how I feel.
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My childhood has been difficult for me. I faced bullying a school, and my parents were strict so I never got any confidence in my life.
All I had was fear and anxiety of people. I m still afraid of people, and that’s why I have no friends. So I feel lonely and depressed most of the time, even when surrounded by people. I m so much afraid of people I don’t know how to talk, most people think I m rude.
I avoid most of the social occasions like parties or gatherings makes excuses.
To add to it, now I m jobless too. I had a good job before 3 years but I felt the same problem there. I left the job because I couldn’t face people there. I felt humiliated during the time I was there, between so many stranger in unknown city. I left it to get another easy job but I couldn’t find any. I m unable to clear any job interviews because of my anxiety.
So now I got nothing positive in my life. I m still trying but I don’t see any good future around.
See, we all have fears no one is an exception. It’s ok not to be ok u know. Let me share an incident of my life , I had an accident where the last bone of my spinal cord was broken. The doctor said I wont be able to walk again , when I first looked in the mirror I asked myself am I satisfied with what I am doing? I found not at all. I cant sit at a corner crying , cribbing and begging for mercy coz people don’t have time for people like us. Do you know what was my biggest fear? My biggest fear was to face people. I feared as people would only show me mercy, and I decided I need to get up and work for none but myself. Now I am a professional debater and speaker. So I would like to suggest you LOVE YOURSELF and BE KIND TO YOURSELF… ask yourself what you would love to do, coz no one better than you knows what will give you happiness…
Just look around yourself and do something where you can give all your passion and dedication …SMILE AT LIFE…LIFE WILL SURELY SMILE AT YOU
thats really inspiring. Thanks a lot for listening.
feel free to share anything here anytime
Onnu @your_friend
One word, gym. Gym will change your life I promise. Try going to the gym or workout at home and you will feel a lot happier
Hi
Thank you so much for opening up
For expressing
Can relate to each and every word written by u
I have been in the same boat…
So dear one
Let me tell you
Your life is very very precious
U will have to take control of ur life.
You will have to help urself out of this
See we all often look out for others to help us
But that doesnot work
This is your battle
You may only get emotional support
But fighting the battle has to be done by u
N u are strong enough
U are a warrior
A fighter
I have fought this battle for 5.5 long years
Without any medical help…
I have helped myself.
Now little little sunlight is visible in the darkness…
It took a long time
I had to be very patient with myself…
Try to take small small baby steps
Donot put more pressure on urself.
N we normally consider multiple things at a time
Like relationship,friendship,career,
family etc etc
First focus on ur career
Try finding some small job
Any type of job that interests u
Maybe teaching or anything
But first let it be part-time
Slowly u will feel confident…
Then u can try full time jobs…
Get busy
Occupy ur mind
Follow ur passions ur hobbies
Try to keep urself cheered
Live for urself n ur family
N always remember
IT IS NEVER TOO LATE
You still have lots of time
To set ur career
To be successful
I know you can do it
Try it…
Donot give up…
N never ever compare urself with anyone
You are special
Unique
And wonderful
Get up my friend
Get up
Embrace ur life
Live it to fullest
All will be fine
Try meeting n interacting with new ppl
Try to volunteer for some NGO
Listen to your heart
Have full faith on urself …
All the very very best to you
God bless…
Take very good care of ur health
Sleep well
Eat healthy
Try to find peace in nature…
Spend more time in open air…
Go on strolls
Listen to good music
Watch n read good n postive content.
Aap har maidan fatheh karoge
Just try it…
thanks a lot, I am feeling much better now
i have nothing left in my life im 21 years old was confident from y5oung and 2 years ago got crippling anxiety from doing drugs my anxietys so bad i cant talk to anyone my mum family friends i just dont know how to communicate ive wanted to end my life for the past year and thats the only thing im sure about
Are we twins? let’s be friends, currently in the same damn boat
anshika gautam @asira
i am in your life now and i am the luckiest lady to have this innocent creature
whatever will happen…it’s us against them
be it fears or anxiety or be it any kind of toughest situations
till the day i am alive…
you will find me fighting against every thing bothering your peace
And I’ll not be fighting for you
but… with you
I am very lucky that I found you in my life, otherwise it was so difficult,
And I promise that whatever be the difficulty in our lives, we’ll fight it together. I’ll always be with you in your hard times and you’re not alone, and you don’t have to feel bad about anything like career or future, as whatever be the condition, we’ll solve it together.