I downloaded this app to get help or something, i explained my story, more than once, i got tips or things to do, but inside me i just cant, i cant deal with none of it, i dont know if i need help? I dont know what i needi cant even takw the help, why? I want to feel okay, i want to feel peace, but iβ¦πi want to be helped but i cant take the help?
Wanna share!
I already have and i know that you all will give really hopeful tips but, i cant accept it? I dont know how to explain
This is actually happening with me :( bro you can talk to me maybe you would feel better
confused dude @milow
Umh, firstly im sorry for you! Maybe you can add me?
Sansthita @sansthita
Hey my dear fellow empath. First of all, donβt be so hard on yourself. Breathe in and breathe out or if thatβs too much, just have a glass of water now. Sometimes when we are wounded like hell by life, everything seems dark, confusing and messy. Itβs like we have too many thoughts in our head and we are not sure about what exactly we are thinking. Itβs a messy place to be in (I have been here) and itβs damn hard. Taking help seems exhausting but you need it, yet u just canβt. You are traumatised by your pain and itβs not your fault. Your trauma is valid and you are not overreacting. When one is in trauma, nothing feels right and mind is all messed up. I know you are probably feeling very lonely and the darkness feels never-ending and the journey seems so difficult and foggy. Itβs okay. Give yourself the time and space to heal. You have had it rough. Take care. I am rooting for you and I am manifesting positivity and happiness for you. Sending sparkles of love from my universe to yours!!
confused dude @milow
This was very sweet and i appreciate that you typed this! But now how do i learnβ accept this? Its not that its gonna bring the person who cared about me back, will it? Im all alone in this batte, and seems like im one agains whole army?:( It feels impossible, whenever she was by my side, everything was so bright and we managed to overcome everything!πi want to accept this message of yours but howβ¦
Sansthita @sansthita
You will accept this eventually. Time heals everything. You donβt have to do anything about it. I know itβs so so hard for you and I also know that you are trying your best to be strong. Itβs so difficult to let go of someone whom you loved so deeply. I can feel your pain my dear empath. Itβs not easy to rebuild your world from the shattered pieces. Just keep floating in your life. You donβt have to do anything. Just keep on breathing and keep on venting like you have always been doing. You will heal from this. It might take time but you will. Just donβt force yourself to snap out of it. Acknowledge your pain like you are doing and you will heal
Sansthita @sansthita
You donβt need to do anything. Time will heal you. I know you are in a hell lot of pain and it isnβt easy to go through what you are going through now. I know how difficult each day feels for you and every moment is a struggle. You are not alone, all of us are here for you, just a dm away. Itβs hard to see someone you loved, leave and itβs harder to rebuild your world from shattered pieces. You donβt have to do anything. Just keep on doing what you are doing now. Talk about it, cry, cry some more and keep breathing. You have had a huge pain, itβs gonna take time to heal, no matter how hard u try to heal fast. But finally you will be okay. You will laugh again. Just keep surviving
confused dude @milow
Well i cant just spamβ here as well, because the world does not evolve around me! Plus i dont know how to use yβallβs? Help? So i dont have really have this place? Im so lucky youre here tho!<3 you and more are saying that just wait it will get better! But what if i cant see the way out? The other side of this βendlessβ darkness, the fact that i wont ever hear from her, just kills me and so much more:( im lost and damn alone, i wanna be supported, but how
Sansthita @sansthita
Sweetheart just keep living. Just keep breathing. That would be enough.