Hi all, thought Iโd give this a whirl as Iโm like a broken record to my friend. Itโs been almost 2 weeks since who I thought was my forever love left me. He called me up and just told me its not working between us, heโs felt numb for months now but he didnโt have the guts to tell me and he doesnโt want to drag the relationship out for the sake of it. I obviously got really upset and so did he, he came to pick his things up a few days ago and Iโve just spiraled into a deep depression. The thing I hate the most is he has had a lot of relationships and heโs very quick to move on, myself was single for years before him and found it hard to be with someone or meet people. He come along and made my life complete, he was my best friend. Iโve been through my fair share of heartbreaks but this just tops it all, especially now Iโm older. I was in shock at first but now I just find myself breaking down constantly, I canโt concentrate on work, I canโt fake a smile when I go out for a walk with my friends, I canโt stop wondering what I could of done different. I feel like Iโm never going be able to meet anyone again who will make me as happy as he didโฆ I canโt describe how much I miss him and Iโd do anything to have him here with me again but I know itโs impossible. I feel so worthless, inconfident, unlovable and weak. How can guys move on so quickly, I wish I could just forget us. ๐ญ
this happens but you have to let go, i know this might be easy to say butโฆ you know you have to love yourself first, everything happens for a reason, and something better is surely waiting for you
Kay Mashee @daisy_face
Itโs hard to love myself when Iโm wondering why he fell out of love with me. I wasnโt a bad girlfriend, it just makes me feel unlovable like there is something wrong with me.
girl thrs nothing wrong with you, and im sure you were a wonderful girlfrnd to him ut you know sometimes its not just meant to be, when you start loving yourself first you will get to know you deserved better, and some relationships just happens to teach you that you deserve more than this,
Rounak Jus @yaashu
I can understand you,