Credit yourself for what you feel you have achieved and be proud of the fact that you actually had the ability to conquer that difficulty and sailed the boat.

Happy

WHAT WOMEN THINK
He is always around me.
He is nice and kind to me.
He must be desperate and lonely.
Let's ignore him.

Lonely

I hate it. I hate it. I hate it.
I completely hate it when my boyfriend is friends with any girl. Does that make me the bad guy?

Insecurity

Hey folks, new here.. how to we meet new people 

Friends



Need an opinion on dating/relationship for man with mental illness 

This is my first time posting on a platform like this so kindly ignore grammatical and other mistakes. I wanted to get opinions and views of women regarding dating someone with schioaffective disorder which is under controll for the past 5 years with medication and therepy, is it actually a deal breking red flag and does this mean it's hopeless for me in arranged marriage scenario, i don't have any relationship experience nor any sexual experience. I don't feel attracted to women at first sight and the only preference I have is that I like curvy women. I had interacted with the girls in my class but it never escalated into good close friendship nor was interested in them romantically. Recently I've been having depressed thoughts and feeling hopeless about relationships and marriage as I don't see I am worthy of it in any way. I cannot say I am the perfect guy and loving and all that as I've never been in a relationship so I don't know what my attachment type is. I just feel no woman will ever be interested in me and even if someone had a crush on me my mental illness will turn them away as it's a huge red flag and no woman wants a mentally ill man.


About me- 30 year old just finished post graduation ( have some learning disability couldn't complete school and joined graduation at 25) and currently applying for jobs and as well as prepping for competitive exams, I've been diagnosed and under treatment for the past 12 years and I am also taking therapy for gynophobia since last year and as part of my treatment my therapist suggested to ask on other's views and thoughts regarding my doubts and beliefs regarding relationships. I never been in a relationship and had very few interactions with women. My mother is the only woman I am comfortable talking with. I've made some improvements in tackling gynophobia since I started taking therapy sessions

P.S.- kindly comment your views and I am not looking for any suggestions on self improvement or meditation/gym/self confidence building.

3am Thoughts

What are you doing everyday to get one step closer to your goal?

College

Empty your mind here.

Other

I’m not being able to concentrate on anything. Either my work, dating or even as basic eating. I’m switching off. What should i do?

Confusion

hey now&me members how's it going? it's going pretty good on my end. i'm just bored is all. other than being bored i'm not doing much. it's hotter than hell outside. i'm so hot, so damn hot. i wish it would cool down. the ac can get kinda loud. so it's not on right now.

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