Deepika S. @thedeepikashah
2 major reasons why you are losing your respect in the relationship!
→ Saying Yes to everything he/she asks of you
→ Forgiving too Quickly. It makes him/her think you are okay with their behavior
Don’t change from how you usually behave just to please them. Take your stand.
Not easy but necessary
I realised it when she decided to broke up with me.
She said " relationship with you is boring" 😄
Deepika S. @thedeepikashah
It was boring because you didn’t keep saying yes I guess
It is opposite, i never said ‘No’ to anything.
She wanted to go out with her friends, i would say yes.
She wanted to meet even if it was quite difficult to meet, i never said No.
If she wanted to go on a date, I’ll even let her to decide where and when and would say " yes, I’ll be there on time".
She wanted to us go home together, i would wait for 1 hour in the park so that we can go home together, every day.
Etc…
What i think is , i made myself more than available for her then i should.
She even used to say sometimes that " why don’t you say anything to me, i do hurt you sometimes by saying what i shouldn’t, but you never scold me or shouts at me. I have never shown my angry self to her not because i can’t but the moment I see her all my anger goes away. 😅😅 I do correct her sometimes but a yes man, nice man never gets the girl in the end 😅
TAURUS_🐂 @mr_unknown_56
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