Yk I’m a loser. just a fucking loser. EOD a person wants someone who listens to them, and with whom they can rest peacefully. for the most it’s their family, father or mother. my father died 2 years back and mother is miserable most of the time. I run out of energy to keep her motivated and I can’t share my things with anyone, not even mother (bec obv she has had enough of her things going on) and because everyone is scared idk what about. I have done many good things in previous 2 months, there’s so much of good chaos that has happened and I want to share it all to someone freely. but I have no one. what’s the fucking point of all this!
I have my goals that seem too ambitious at times and seem impossible with the present state of mind. I can’t discuss these openly with anyone. I have improved a lot over time, but that’s all in my head. I just keep pushing everyday merely because of the quanta of discipline left in me. There’s no motivation. Oftentimes I get crazy like why tf am I doing this. For whom I’m doing this. Why can’t I just sleep peacefully for once!
Your time will come. Don’t lose your patience🤍
at this point I’m just showing up daily without any thoughts
You aren’t just showing up, you are walking, your feet are moving inside a dark tunnel, end of which there is nothing but light. If you stop here, you won’t be able to see the light. So, keep going, keep swimming. More ways will open up, for sure😊
anuj @anujvohra
Hey, you can share your thoughts. Don’t think yourself as looser. Just be yourself and be happy. Hope you will have a great life
i’m trying my best at this point, that’s all I know
anuj @anujvohra
Yes. I am sure you are… continue doing like that. Do feel free to connect if u wish to share anytime.
You can share with me, I have gone through similar situation
how do you send request? can’t see any option
Harmanpreet K. @harmanpree...
Dear Soul,
I completely understand your situation and I totally empathise with you. Life is a struggle everyday, each day. But during this struggle we forget our sole purpose of this life and get lost in the chaos of this everyday hussle. But sometimes we must take a break and think about ourselves too. I know it’s not easy, but it’s not even impossible. It’s just that we are not conditioned to think about ourselves. From the beginning, we are taught to serve others and neglect ourselves (especially women). This culture went forward from time to time and nobody ever questioned it.
But the thing is that as now we know the value of ‘self love’ and ‘self priority’ I think we should start practising it. And start sharing our thoughts with someone whole we trust. Or talk to someone professional.
I hope it will help you out.
I wish the best for you.!!
Regards
Harmanpreet K.
Atharva @markandey_14
I will. I’m trying my best, I will!
Hey bro send me req let’s talk about this I guess we are going through the same situation, so if you’re free to talk I’m here
how do you do it? there’s no option I can see
