Yaarrr he's hurting meee! This isn't how love is supposed to be. Where's that love he had for me since last 3 years? How can all of it change in seconds? How can he be someione I never expected him to be? His hugs no more give me sukoon. I miss being loved by him purely, with nothing at all attached to it other than care, respect and boundaries. How can all of it disappear this way? He has disappointed me in all the waysss! I need to get outtttt.

Eventually everything falls back to the right place, it will:)
Thanks for the concern.

He's just pretending, i guess
Or maybe i am not ready to accept all of it the way it is

Love

i really need to move on but i just can’t. i don’t know what else to do. i feel so alone because i was so attached to him and now he’s gone. no matter what time of day it is i just feel like nothing will get better. i thought he cared about me but it doesn’t seem like he even did. i miss him so much but he treated me so bad and now i feel the regret. then again i just never wanna see him again. he moved on so fast it just makes me wonder what was going through his mind when it all started falling apart. does anyone have any advice on how to let someone go? 

3am Thoughts

I highly doubt my relationship with my bf and keep on thinking that we don't have any future. I feel his family is not  going to accept me because of our caste differences. I feel I'm wasting our time and emotions 

Confusion

In love with someone. But can't be with him. He was separated when we met and was about to apply for divorce but now things have changed and his wife is back. They do not share a very good relationship. She is verbally and physically abusive. I have heard her. His family seems to be happy with the arrangement. I am finding it really difficult to move on. We work together and i see him almost everyday. My parents are pressuring me to get married and i also feel the need for companionship. 

What should I do? Is it okay to continue seeing him knowing that there is no future together? I am just stuck at if it is morally right? Should I move ahead with an arranged marriage for which I am probably not ready. 

He is also going through a major depression phase for which he's not ready to take any counselling. He feels i should move on as he's not worth my time because he suffers from an autoimmune disease which would affect his mobility in old age. 

I just can't take the decision. He's the best i have had till now. I have never been so comfortable with anyone in my life. 





Mental Health

I have been cheated on by a guy i never thought would EVER cheat on me. We’ve been together for a long time. I know and feel that he loves me so much. He’s such a nice kind hearted guy. He is sweet and compassionate. I always thought before that if ever this very nice guy would ever cheat on me, then i will not be able to trust anyone anymore. Then so it happens. :( I found out that hes been cheating on me for almost a year. its so heartbreaking, traumatizing.  am so angry that i felt the need to get even. I get even and let him know what i did. We cried and became so toxic. Then he cheated on me again and again. We gave each other a chance. (I know. Im stupid. Thats why im angry at myself too:( ) But I become so toxic to our relationship because I really felt disrespected, unwanted, insecure. 4years after what happened, i still get angry about it. He seems okay. But as for me, i still have regrets forgiving him for everything that he did. I always think about it every day. How he made me feel. The disrespect. The pain that i felt when its seems okay with him that he is hurting me. 

Now, i can see that he is a changed man. But the thing is. I’m still mad at him. I am always angry at him. And eventhough I’m always picking up a fight and pushing him away. He understand and choose not to fight with me. Its so sad that when someone hurts you, it is still your OWN responsibility to heal. I’m so hurt and angry. And i don’t know what to do to help myself overcome this. 

Cheating

Hey there can I have your attention please..can I get one quick answer please 😌..
So there's like my male friend who is my ex,my crush,my better half,my what not I may say ,we decided moving on due to xyz reason n now that he has moved on I feel sick,low,sad, depressed..he's still there for me but I get late replies as he started dating someone else,I get those pretty texts where he says he's there by my side 24/7 🤷..so what does this mean what should I reply him ...idk what to goo ..how to face this situation..it's been more than 4 years we have been together 🙃

Depression

Heyy everyone 
Want help from you all for a killing confusion.
I met a guy on dating app and we vibed very well I was also attracted towards him and I felt very happy with what I was felling but due to my overthinking I got scared that what if the guy leaves as he was planning for further studies away and to protect myself I pulled away but later I realised that it was a wrong thing to do and I apologised but I did not got the same energy from him and I decided to let go but later he reached out and asked to meet and we met and decided to start over but post that meeting he was completely indifferent he said he us busy but I couldn’t sense a change in energy I even asked if he don’t fell the connect anymore but he said no but it was only me putting efforts whereas earlier he was so much into me the moment I stopped texting he didn’t reached out, while my mind says to let it go he may not be interested anymore but I really like him and I want to at least have a closure I so want to reach out and ask but I’ve deleted his number and also unfollowed him on insta to control myself but this question of why he changed did I hurt him really kills me and I am not able let him go, I want to atleast try again, what should I do should I just listen to my heart and forgive about self respect since this guilt is killing me what if I would have never pulled away what if this could have turned into something great!!!
Please help me with this dilemma 

Anxiety

I miss talking to this guy that makes me smile without him knowing and one day i shoo him away coz of my self-doubt and anxiety. i truly regretted and felt guilty for it. AND I WANT HIM BACK BUT IM SCARED TO TEXT HIM COZ MAYBE HE THINKS IM PLAYING WITH HIS FEELINGS 😭😭

Frustration

I started hating men in terms of relationship.
Like one girl is not enough for you ? My whole friends group got cheated on from boys... Why you people just chase us b4 relationship and leave us like a pet or something after using ???? Why most of you can't be consistent on one ??

One of my friend is soo beautiful that half of the school boys had a crush on her and even she got cheated on...  🙃 Then who and what am I... 

My ex used to flirt with some girl in dms ( i m not sure about it) but in comments also... I gave him a chance but he took it lightly so I breakup with him... He used to forbid me to do all this while he himself used to do all this. LoL.

But this brain still want to give him but I don't want to... 

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