Why do some people feel like they need to share their unasked for opinions.
I came in to work today in a good mood and one of the lady i worked with just had to comment on the fact that I’m gaining wait. I know I am and I plan to start exercising in two weeks cause that’s when my internship with them ends.
That’s the second time she’s made a comment the fist time was knew morning when I bought something to eat in the morning cause I dodt have breakfast. She said “Sophia you’ve got to stop eating”
Of course I didn’t say anything and no one else did as well.
She the kind of person to always to point out the obvious about people but there’s just some things you don’t say.
I’ve always considered myself to be the right weight for my height and age and always try to keep it that way. And it has always been something that I’ve been self conscious about.
And what further frustrate me is that all those things she points out applies to herself, she doesn’t see her faults but always see other people’s.
And now because of her I feel self conscious and insecure.
Do much for a beautiful morning.
Where are you from
This sounds like something which can only happen in India… that’s why
No I’m not from India far from it actually
You know this actually makes me feel better thank you. But it also makes me feel sad for her, no one should feel insecure like that, that they have to project it on other people.
Ignore her yr… May be she was just kidding… because people do these things as a joke
Yah I’ve decided to just ignore her. But you don’t make jokes like that with people you don’t know well and that’s the second time she made a comment. Plus she’s also always making comments about people faults, mistakes and insecurities. Hypocritically I might add
Then stay away from her… clearly tell her that you don’t like this behaviour so that she will set boundaries