Why do some people feel like they need to share their unasked for opinions.
I came in to work today in a good mood and one of the lady i worked with just had to comment on the fact that Iβm gaining wait. I know I am and I plan to start exercising in two weeks cause thatβs when my internship with them ends.
Thatβs the second time sheβs made a comment the fist time was knew morning when I bought something to eat in the morning cause I dodt have breakfast. She said βSophia youβve got to stop eatingβ
Of course I didnβt say anything and no one else did as well.
She the kind of person to always to point out the obvious about people but thereβs just some things you donβt say.
Iβve always considered myself to be the right weight for my height and age and always try to keep it that way. And it has always been something that Iβve been self conscious about.
And what further frustrate me is that all those things she points out applies to herself, she doesnβt see her faults but always see other peopleβs.
And now because of her I feel self conscious and insecure.
Do much for a beautiful morning.
t say.
Where are you from
Why?
This sounds like something which can only happen in Indiaβ¦ thatβs why
No Iβm not from India far from it actually
Yeaahβ¦lol
You know this actually makes me feel better thank you. But it also makes me feel sad for her, no one should feel insecure like that, that they have to project it on other people.
Ignore her yr⦠May be she was just kidding⦠because people do these things as a joke
Yah Iβve decided to just ignore her. But you donβt make jokes like that with people you donβt know well and thatβs the second time she made a comment. Plus sheβs also always making comments about people faults, mistakes and insecurities. Hypocritically I might add
Then stay away from herβ¦ clearly tell her that you donβt like this behaviour so that she will set boundaries