When I was 6 or 7 years old, my father looked at me in the eye and said it's my bad luck that I became your father otherwise I wouldn't choose to be a father of you people.


Remember, these words actually have a hidden meaning too.
Your father must be feeling like a failure because his efforts must not have helped you to grow into a fruitful and competitive person.
Work hard, and then approach your father. He will embace you will all his love

This is the worst pain anyone ever could feel... And i feel you.. and this is not your fault... Just be proud of yourself.. and do good in your life... 

Family

My father is so toxic he literally hates me he never talks to me in a good way he always keeps on shouting he behaves like I m his enemy ghar ka mahol unke wajah se itna negetive rehta hai ab muje unse threat feel hota hai 
We have no bonding bahut kharab equation hai unka aur mera 
No matter what he is never happy at home... 
His nature is so ajib it is very tough staying with him

Frustration

My Dad Always behave with Me In a certain way. He Always Keeps His talks secrets with Me. Whenever i ask Him something he dosent reply Anything and If sometimes he replyes he says it rudely and tells me I m worthless. He Is Impressive to outer world however Keeps Secrets With me. AVOIDS me and never Answers me.

Life

why is my dad trying to get me to socialise with the guests that stayed over lmao 
i hate guests

My father confuses anger with kindness. Growing up, I've always been closer to my mother as my father has always had a bad and short temper. I started to realize how talking to him about my feelings became extremely difficult as a teenager. He will never understand - I repeat to myself everytime I think about blurting everything out to him. I know this is bad, but I've bottled up my thoughts about him and our relationship for so long. 

The way he treats me, I don't feel loved. Unlike most girls who see their father as a role model or seek for a man like him - I don't and I never have. In fact, I don't want to be like my father - toxic and abusive. He doesn't realise what he says or does really hurts me , even the littlest most pettiest things. I don't know how to talk to him because we've never had that equation from the beginning. At times, he can be very affectionate and nice - when he gets mad - he doesn't realise what he says like most people. But the damage is already done, and the next day he pretends like a fight/argument never happened - I don't know how to act because no matter how much I want to hold a grudge against him for being mad at me, I cant. So I move on too. He says to me that he yells at me out of love, for my own wellbeing, he wants to see me do well, etc but I feel that he is confusing his anger with kindness and using that as a justification as the emotional abuse I've had to deal with for years. I know its normal to have fights with your parents but recently, I feel that I have reached my limit with my father. I feel happy when he's not around in the house, more than when he is. This is an unconscious feeling, I don't want to feel like this.I want to love him like all children love their father. I don't feel like talking to him at all nowadays and even he is starting to realise that. Infact today, he came into my room to ask about my day and how my studies are going - but it feels like a burden to me when he does. I want to amend our relationship before I leave to university...but how...

Emotional Abuse

Baby Daddy Drama
When all of a sudden you are the bad parent but the parent who missed half of yours and his Childs life is apparently the better parent apparently it is my fault when she gets sick or in trouble at school but the way she acts at school she never acts this way at home but now everything is my fault but according to him our daughter said i let her get away with whatever she gets in trouble for at his house and he wont believe anything i say but really who believes a 6 year old isn't going to tell fibs she doesn't get away with anything when she is with me but now apparently I am the bad parent and even though he doesn't say it his actions scream it loud and clear like him saying she doesn't want to go with me but yet he didn't start saying that till for 2 months straight she clung to me and cried and begged to not go to his house and then all of a sudden he started saying she begs to not come back to me but yet when she sees me he cant get her out of the car fast enough for her then she jumps from his arms to mine every single time I'm not sure if it upsets him because of how much our daughter loves me but doesn't always act as excited about seeing him as she does me I'm not sure but I am so tired of being made out to be the bad parent when I am doing everything that I can to make sure that she is happy and healthy and that she has a good relationship with the both of us.

Anxiety

sometimes you just want someone to help you, listen to you, love you. not always a girl. your family, you do everything even sometimes you make up things so that it will make your father proud and others will not look down upon him, just to make him happy and you realize that just seeing your father happy makes you happy. but you also want someone to listen to you in your dark times and in spite of that he is way more welcoming than many others but still you were not raised that way so still if you want him to listen, you won't be able to speak.

Hello, so I wanted to share this from a long time, 
I really don't know what to do with this. Every day I hear shouting and fighting when I get up. Tbh I literally get up with those sound, my mom and dad. I don't know what to do now. 
Basically, my dad don't do anything for us. He earns very less but he don't give us a single penny. He doesn't love us. And he and my grandfather expect my mom to give them money to eat ( which my mom is giving them from 21 years) but my mom fights with my dad every day, it's not her mistake not gonna lie. I also have hard feelings for my dad. I have got a REALLY toxic household. I can't study in peace. I'll not blame my mom but broo it's really hard I don't know how to express it. But you put yourself in my place, how will you feel when you hear fights every morning, afternoon and night, I just can't live with it. My mom is a really sweet lady she's is REALLY hardworking, she's raising me alone. I really love her. 😭😭

My dad ran behind my mom with a sword in his hand to kill her with it infront of my eyes when I was just 6. He abuses me too now. I can't live like this anymore. Something is seriously wrong with my dad and I am the one who's going through shit because of it

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