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What’s worse; having had both supportive parents and 1 dies of cancer and the other took their own life…so both are dead…or having abusive parents, sexually, physically and mentally, who are separated and both dont acknowledge their children’s pain and live their own happy lives as the child, now adult suffers at their expense?

To be clear…One’s own suffering is relative to themself…each person would share grief in either circumstance…but which is worse/ more ideal? Supportive, but dead parents? Or Abusive and living parents?

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I guess abusive parents because accepting the death of someone so supportive, nice and caring person is so so different. It may be unbearable.