What’s the worst that has happened to me? So, one day, I really needed someone by my side because i was having a hard time of doubt. I decided I’ll just vent to my BFF and we’ve been friends for 9 years. I tell her about all my problems and that i think I’m suffering from depression and i need a shoulder to cry on. But all she could say jokingly is that she doesn’t think it’s true and I’m just exaggerating. Like i literally cry almost day, waking up every morning with a heavy heart and my mind full of thoughts. Maybe I’m just being a bit too much??
I can relate, I have a bff and whenever I expected him to understand me, he always took my pain lightly
No no, you ain’t too much, please don’t doubt yourself
It’s just another level of betrayal😔
Actually we think everything is pure But it’s kalyug the truth is something else. We can’t expect Krishna Sudama kind of friendship here
If you still want to share something, you can share
For real
Thank you so much
Ok , take care
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Shivay @shivay_
Heyy are you alright.
Whats been going on in your heart
What makes your heart so heavy which makes you cry daily.
And No you are not being too much. These are your emotions and feelings. If you feel things are not going good then they are not going good.
You never have to validate your emotions from others, no matter who the person is, whether it’s your parents, your siblings, your partner or even your BFF. They are not going through what you are going through so they’ll never ever be able to respect your emotions.
Your BFF was clearly very wrong as after 9 years if she thinks snd feels that you are exaggerating your emotions and feelings then she never understood you at all
Shivay @shivay_
She did you wrong.
And see its very simple. You value her and you respect your friendship with her that why even when you did nothing wrong you are scared and afraid that she might feel bad.
And she never thought this about you. You are also her BFF she never thought that joking about your feelings and emotions will hurt you.
See you’ll have to choose yourself. Because its only going to be You with You. Everyone else will come, play their parts and leave.
Only you’ll be there with you.
To you just tell her that what she said hurted you and you expected better from her. Be polite and just put forward your emotions.
And you replied with your id. Please delete that comment if you are not comfortable.
Thank you so much!!
Shivay @shivay_
Please you never have to say thanks to me ever again. Just keep on believing in yourself and loving yourself and that’s all the thanks I’ll ever need…
All the more power, love and peace to you ✨✨
