This question is for you boys or men " what do you really think about girls who are not virgin" would you give her same respect as a non virgin girl??
My ex has been telling shit and itโs really bothering me, some words would be nice. Thank you
Oh my god! Just been through the same. I just donโt understand that when both the sexes are involved in that act why only girls have to tolerate all the comments?! I mean no one ever asks a guy about his virginity? Why only the girl?!
I know right, even the fuck boys get to judge us, like u r fuck boy who u judging ๐๐๐
Aryan @bluciiferr
Yes like its the same why do you care this boy is virgin or not ig not so we aslo not care about ik bout virgin is not and girl is virgin is way to opposite but like i cant say like every men dont care its your life but there are some you kinda care but there aslo who respect that ig do what exictes
From where i belong, i think more people are from the side that cares and it bothers me what if i lost my chance of a happy relationship between because of that, but now listening to u people i feel like if he canโt accept this, does he even deserve me right??
Aryan @bluciiferr
I am just curious liek I am in 12 class like I am totally I jerk never been in a relationship but is there may way to check it out you are virgin or not like you can say you are but that a lie but I donโt think there is way to check it out and if there I donโt thing they do like the mind set they have they donโt even know things about that ig
I guess so itโs all about the personโs mind set, it has nothing to do with virginity or past sex life of someone.
Aryan @bluciiferr
Yes!!
Why should we not give respect to non virgin girl having intercourse is not bad at all itโs the girl choose to have it it or not and if a person make you feel like this kich him out of your life bcz itโs your life not his
Thank you, i did kick him out of my life, hope to find someone whose mentality is like you ๐
Thanks for the compliment and we can talk more if you want u can tell me other problems which u faced
There are soo many things wrong, donโt know where to being with. I feel soo used and broken, i canโt forgive my ex for not respecting my boundaries, i canโt forgive myself for letting him disrespect me so many times, i did this to myself, actually i deserve it for being so stupid.
Do u want to talk privately or something or u are okay here
Or we can talk here okay do not worry stay strong
Look the thing is, the past shouldnโt affect the person that youโre in a relationship with, be it a boy or a girl and if it does believe itโs gonna become toxic sooner or later, so the best thing to do is stop talking to those people who make a big deal out of your past
Yeah right, itโs in the past for some reason, it should left like that. Present and future is what matters, thank you ๐
Hello am a guy, and let me tell you that a girl being a virgin or not, doesnโt matter, every girl deserves to be treated with respect and the same way as the others. If you have lost your virginity it does not change anything. The people who think different are stupid and uneducated,so pls donโt listen to them
Thank you, society needs more people like you ๐
I hope so too. Itโs my duty
UMM. I HAVE SEEN GUYS TREAT NON VIRGIN GIRLS WITH THAT MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT. IT SHOWCASES ON THE MAN.
YOUR EX is wrong.
He is better left in the past. Do not think about it.
Thank you, i hope i find someone like that ๐ and u too
Hahaha yeah!!!
Believe me or not each and every person is different and boys in comment section would just say what they feel personally. What i feel is that virgin or non virgin has nothing to do with ones character. At the same talking about respect? Fuck yea why not? Is losing your virginity is crime? Definitely not.
I guess so, you know but when guys hear that you are not a virgin they start seeing you like a free pass or something that they can have easily and they start disrespecting you are a slut??
No one can disrespect you in any form and its a small world after all , let them think whatever they want to , thats what a mob does. For ex , i am a male too and i too respect you for what you are doing. Now you cant say all boys dont respect you or see you as free pass๐
People like you go in the exception category really because most of the boys i meet, they just want sex and would even fake a relationship to get that ๐๐
I just hope there are more people like you out there.
Love yourself , Believe in you and you will find more people like us without even looking for them, just how you came here and we all met. Take care๐
What exactly has your ex been saying though?
U know shit like he took my virginity so no one else would want someone like me or i could never leave him now, he knew loosing virginity was a big deal for me, i guess he used it.
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Is it matter we live jn 21st century and that statement is like 500 yrs old donโt wanna waste anyone time so remember virgin or non virgin never matter okay whole concept is flawed and absurd
Right, no one should be judging us for our choices, decision, if they donโt like it then they should walk away. Right?
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Look peoples judge us from our past and their imagination no one actually ask things they just assume them and that is how our thinking process work out no one ask present and about sex look it is just a simple physical activity nothing else and you are not something like pure water which will get dirty by mere touch you are human and humans evolve and learn with there mistakes okay and yup that is simple act and I think you should enjoy that thing too
Very well explained i must say, i got the point, only if everyone had mindset like you, no one would be judged. Really hope to find a guy whose mentality is like you ๐
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Ahh Iโm a luxury dear you never find me like and neither there is someone have my mindset and that is simple fact and yup this mindset look around me peoples call me different and unfit which is right too and hope you find guy that you wish just try to find his character and maturity donโt find a kid try to find a man with heart
You go king ๐ฏ
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Ahh kings live alone
What is your age? This shit doesnโt matter Iโm guessing youโre young cause in a few years of your life there will be close to no one virgin in your circle or any person you meet new or otherwise.
Well i am an adult, 23 yrs old, i guess i need more open minded people. Anyway thank you for ur words, i hope that shit wonโt matter. ๐
Yes anytime.