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Anonymous

This question is for you boys or men " what do you really think about girls who are not virgin" would you give her same respect as a non virgin girl??
My ex has been telling shit and itโ€™s really bothering me, some words would be nice. Thank you

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Anonymous
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Oh my god! Just been through the same. I just donโ€™t understand that when both the sexes are involved in that act why only girls have to tolerate all the comments?! I mean no one ever asks a guy about his virginity? Why only the girl?!

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Anonymous
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I know right, even the fuck boys get to judge us, like u r fuck boy who u judging ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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Aryan @bluciiferr

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Yes like its the same why do you care this boy is virgin or not ig not so we aslo not care about ik bout virgin is not and girl is virgin is way to opposite but like i cant say like every men dont care its your life but there are some you kinda care but there aslo who respect that ig do what exictes

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Anonymous
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From where i belong, i think more people are from the side that cares and it bothers me what if i lost my chance of a happy relationship between because of that, but now listening to u people i feel like if he canโ€™t accept this, does he even deserve me right??

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Aryan @bluciiferr

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I am just curious liek I am in 12 class like I am totally I jerk never been in a relationship but is there may way to check it out you are virgin or not like you can say you are but that a lie but I donโ€™t think there is way to check it out and if there I donโ€™t thing they do like the mind set they have they donโ€™t even know things about that ig

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Anonymous
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I guess so itโ€™s all about the personโ€™s mind set, it has nothing to do with virginity or past sex life of someone.

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Aryan @bluciiferr

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Yes!!

@chandan5678
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Why should we not give respect to non virgin girl having intercourse is not bad at all itโ€™s the girl choose to have it it or not and if a person make you feel like this kich him out of your life bcz itโ€™s your life not his

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Anonymous
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Thank you, i did kick him out of my life, hope to find someone whose mentality is like you ๐Ÿ’—

@chandan5678
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Thanks for the compliment and we can talk more if you want u can tell me other problems which u faced

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Anonymous
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There are soo many things wrong, donโ€™t know where to being with. I feel soo used and broken, i canโ€™t forgive my ex for not respecting my boundaries, i canโ€™t forgive myself for letting him disrespect me so many times, i did this to myself, actually i deserve it for being so stupid.

@chandan5678
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Do u want to talk privately or something or u are okay here

@chandan5678
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Or we can talk here okay do not worry stay strong

@ethan_
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Look the thing is, the past shouldnโ€™t affect the person that youโ€™re in a relationship with, be it a boy or a girl and if it does believe itโ€™s gonna become toxic sooner or later, so the best thing to do is stop talking to those people who make a big deal out of your past

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Anonymous
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Yeah right, itโ€™s in the past for some reason, it should left like that. Present and future is what matters, thank you ๐Ÿ’—

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@heyo
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Hello am a guy, and let me tell you that a girl being a virgin or not, doesnโ€™t matter, every girl deserves to be treated with respect and the same way as the others. If you have lost your virginity it does not change anything. The people who think different are stupid and uneducated,so pls donโ€™t listen to them

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Anonymous
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Thank you, society needs more people like you ๐Ÿ’—

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Anonymous
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I hope so too. Itโ€™s my duty

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Anonymous
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UMM. I HAVE SEEN GUYS TREAT NON VIRGIN GIRLS WITH THAT MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT. IT SHOWCASES ON THE MAN.
YOUR EX is wrong.
He is better left in the past. Do not think about it.

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Anonymous
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Thank you, i hope i find someone like that ๐Ÿ’— and u too

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Anonymous
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Hahaha yeah!!!

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@patient2000
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Believe me or not each and every person is different and boys in comment section would just say what they feel personally. What i feel is that virgin or non virgin has nothing to do with ones character. At the same talking about respect? Fuck yea why not? Is losing your virginity is crime? Definitely not.

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Anonymous
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I guess so, you know but when guys hear that you are not a virgin they start seeing you like a free pass or something that they can have easily and they start disrespecting you are a slut??

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@patient2000
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No one can disrespect you in any form and its a small world after all , let them think whatever they want to , thats what a mob does. For ex , i am a male too and i too respect you for what you are doing. Now you cant say all boys dont respect you or see you as free pass๐Ÿ˜‚

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Anonymous
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People like you go in the exception category really because most of the boys i meet, they just want sex and would even fake a relationship to get that ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
I just hope there are more people like you out there.

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@patient2000
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Love yourself , Believe in you and you will find more people like us without even looking for them, just how you came here and we all met. Take care๐Ÿ’š

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Anonymous
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What exactly has your ex been saying though?

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Anonymous
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U know shit like he took my virginity so no one else would want someone like me or i could never leave him now, he knew loosing virginity was a big deal for me, i guess he used it.

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Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495

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Is it matter we live jn 21st century and that statement is like 500 yrs old donโ€™t wanna waste anyone time so remember virgin or non virgin never matter okay whole concept is flawed and absurd

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Anonymous
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Right, no one should be judging us for our choices, decision, if they donโ€™t like it then they should walk away. Right?

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Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495

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Look peoples judge us from our past and their imagination no one actually ask things they just assume them and that is how our thinking process work out no one ask present and about sex look it is just a simple physical activity nothing else and you are not something like pure water which will get dirty by mere touch you are human and humans evolve and learn with there mistakes okay and yup that is simple act and I think you should enjoy that thing too

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Anonymous
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Very well explained i must say, i got the point, only if everyone had mindset like you, no one would be judged. Really hope to find a guy whose mentality is like you ๐Ÿ’—

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Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495

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Ahh Iโ€™m a luxury dear you never find me like and neither there is someone have my mindset and that is simple fact and yup this mindset look around me peoples call me different and unfit which is right too and hope you find guy that you wish just try to find his character and maturity donโ€™t find a kid try to find a man with heart

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Anonymous
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You go king ๐Ÿ’ฏ

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Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495

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Ahh kings live alone

@maayank17
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What is your age? This shit doesnโ€™t matter Iโ€™m guessing youโ€™re young cause in a few years of your life there will be close to no one virgin in your circle or any person you meet new or otherwise.

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Anonymous
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Well i am an adult, 23 yrs old, i guess i need more open minded people. Anyway thank you for ur words, i hope that shit wonโ€™t matter. ๐Ÿ’—

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Anonymous
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Yes anytime.

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