human @human_1
Dear parents,
Iβm a teenager. I donβt get the grades you want me to. I donβt act like you want me to, I get attitude on unexpected times. I donβt talk like you want me to. I donβt listen to the music you want me to. I donβt dress like you want me to. You always think Iβm ungrateful. You make me feel as if Iβm not worth it. The things you say hurt me. The things you say are not always accurate. I am only a teenager for a little while. Let me go have fun. Let me have sleepovers. Let me go with my friends to Starbucks. Let me use my phone when Iβm bored. Let me go to the mall with friends. Donβt yell at me for every little thing I do. I am a teenager.
Avinnash Kumar @avinnash_k...
I advice you to tell this to your parents directly. No point in sharing this particular feeling of yours to us.
Easier to advice than done
This is not written by me it is written by an anonymous writer i just relate to it at some parts i am sure other teenagers do relate to this too i wanted them to know that someone has written our fellings on a paper.
human @human_1
True
Avinnash Kumar @avinnash_k...
If you find talking to parents is tough, then thereβs nothing gonna be easy for you in the outer world.
Again Iβd sayβ¦ Easier to say all this philosphical stuffβ¦ But harder to accept and to do.
alright, foa what I said wasnβt a philosophical stuff. Itβs a basic understanding of life. If you canβt convince or make them understand what you want, then how could you even face others.
Seeβ¦ What youβre saying is very right and even seems soothing
But itβs applicable to very less people :(
Because when a parent doesnβt seem to understand a child, the child cannot approach the parent in any way. Cz parents donβt think theyβre wrong!
And as a kid (already young, and also emotionally attached to them as caretakers) no child can have enough to heart to open up to parents.
While poori baaki duniya ko face krlenge bcz voh itne zyada na hi MATTER krte hain.
so basically youβre a kid?
Haha here you lost all the point of me getting into this debate. Because all you cared for is if Iβm a kid, and not of you proving your point. Anyways have a good day
lol chill out kid
no point in explaining you the things
I felt as same as you at your age.
youβll change your views once you grew up.
take care kid, complete your homeworks before bedtime
khushi @khushisfine24
I hear you π€
human @human_1
Thank you π
Jis din Tera ladka hoga tab baat karenge⦠Ye farzi rebel sab karte hain fir regret karte hain. Take fucking ownership of your life. Unse paise Lena bandd kar de fir kuchh bhi karega nahin bolenge tereko
human @human_1
https://nowandme.com/this-is-not-written-by-me-it-is-6Q1rmLRn_iciIWN. And listen i work at my parents shop so meko paise lene ki jarurat bhi nahi hai ye chiz maine nahi liki mai bas relate karti hu ise iske liye share ki and the way you are talking is rude.if you donβt know donβt speak π»
Truth sounds rude at time. Stay Happy⦠I just said what I will say to anyone posting this. :)
Shaina πΊ @shainaitis
Hey sirf financial help krne se koi best parent nahi banta. There are soooo manyyyy things parenthood is to be judged by. And at times, parents do fail to emotionally understand a teenager probably because of their old school thinking
Maine kab kaha ? But if your lifestyle comes on their expenses and you still shit on em⦠You got serious problem with accountability. Be the bigger person⦠Easy to cry in a corner⦠Nobody got anything without blood sweat and Pain
Shaina πΊ @shainaitis
Ahhh why is it like βshitting on emβ
This just sounds so mean as their kids, when we never said anything such.
We, as kids can surely complain on anything related to them which surely doesnβt mean weβre against them!
And here, problem is not their financial help provided to us but the emotional envolvement of theirs in us! Please donβt sound as if they are the victims
Youβre in farzi rebel mode highly influenced by pop culture toxic marketing. They are good peopleβ¦try understanding em for once.
ryan @ryan0007
Hi,
I also did experience similar things in my teenage. So you need to approach your parents and make them understand whatβs ongoing with your thoughts. The most problematic aspect is that we speculate a lot in our mind but didnβt do it actually because of fear of failing. You canβt understand until you experience it. Every problem has solution. We just need to explore it.
Try to be happy, other than these problems we have lot in our life. In order to give peace to mind, we need to act right in right time.
Wish you a good time ahead.
Peace
Ryan