Sometimes you look back and realise that they didn’t treat you right. Whenever you had to ask them to show their love. It wasn’t right. Whenever they chose someone else over you. It wasn’t right. Whenever they made excuses. It wasn’t right. But why can’t i wrap my head around it. If someone is being mean towards you when you had given them no reason to do so. My mind just can’t accept it. Why would they? Why did they?
I hope i could hate them. Hate them to the core that every wrong deed they did can be clear to me.
At the same time I’m pathetic as well
please read book this book “You’re Too Good to Feel This Bad: An Orthodox Approach to Living an Unorthodox Life” or “Awaken the Giant Within How to Take Immediate Control of Your Mental, Emotional, Physical and Financial Destiny! – Tony Robbins”
I’ll try to read them. Thank you for the suggestions
Please don’t be so harsh on yourself
Well, I’m trying
Yeah just be in peace
Can’t find it nowhere
Maybe stop expecting people to be a certain way? It not upto you to keep limits / boundaries for others to do Or not do things. Be an observer and not take it personally.
I have heard it many times like to stop expecting but till what extent. Suppose you are with someone and you expect just the bare minimum should i not?
True… But seeking perfection from humans in itself is a flaw ain’t it 🙃…
Be Detached to an extent where you don’t end up so hurt …
There is a difference between perfection and bare minimum
Well you gotta Find someone who care enough to do the bare minimum… Not all ppl are up for it 🤷♀️
Take it like the harsh truth or smthin