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@ashu

Sometimes I crave for friends while having friends… As those friends are with me because of any benefit they want… The most difficult work is to find a good friend… Now I’m trying to find a friend on a strangers site … I wish their would be anyone like me … Who also crave for friends while having friends… Hope I’ll find a good friend with whom I can share my problems …

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@ijustneedhelpdude

I understand. I desperately want friends even though I have a few, but it doesn’t always feel like it. I understand where you’re coming from. Know that it’s OK

@ashu

Umm thnq…

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Simran @st1199

Hello!
Maybe the reason for craving is that you don’t feel friendly enough to be with them or inside your heart you know you won’t count on them when asked who all are your friends, is what I am trying to guess?
If this is the case, it’s better to be yourself and let be alone and process whether you actually want them or you are beside them so as to have or at least get a sense of “friend circle” feel.

It’s good that you are trying to find a friend who matches your vibe and understands you at a deeper level. It’s hard but sometimes things happen unexpectedly. It’s not important that you get the exact replica but that one who understands and knows your actions and supports and revokes you at certain times. 💙

@ashu

Yeah you’re somewhat guessing right … I don’t feel friendly with them anymore … And I had stopped talking with them … yeah I know that it’s difficult to find anyone like that … But I’ll try … Hope I’ll succeed… Whether I’ll succeed or not but I’ll get busy for sometime…and that’s the main thing for me now… To divert my mind …

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Simran @st1199

Good. Slowly and gradually we can overcome this.

If it feels right to stop talking and you don’t feel bad not talking to them, you are in a great place.
I hope you find what you are looking for!🌼

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dhvani @dhvanee

You must be feeling so, because you feel that they don’t care about your feelings, and sharing your problems with them won’t help you out. They might seem to be friends who just take advantage of your friendship and get their work done, and then, they’re gone until the next time they want help from you. You must be feeling that they don’t account you as a such a friend, that you used to account them like. They must be seeming to you as untrue friends. This happens to me too, at many a times, and I wish I had a true friend too, but still I need to pretend having a good friendship with them. I had to convince myself into believing that true friends don’t exist, and that’s how the world keeps going. I’ve got a few genuinely good friends, but I’ve lost faith in true friendship. Is that how you feel too?

@ashu

Yeah it’s absolutely same … I had now made a distance from them as I can’t hold up that anymore… Well yeah true friendship is really difficult or may be impossible to find… Well good luck as u got some genuine friends … I’m happy for that… Thnq for the response … As when someone reply to me … I feel better … That well their is someone who is listening and understanding what I want to say …

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dhvani @dhvanee

It was a pleasure to share my part of the story with you.

@inspiredlion

Can we be friends.

@ashu

Umm thnq… Yeah we can be friends…

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Anonymous

Are u ashutosh priyadarshi

@ashu

Sorry! Um no … I’m not that person

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Anonymous

Hi, am kinda in the same situation. Looking for a friend who is genuine. we can be friends here. Maybe we might help each other out

Riya🦋 @uniiiiiiiii

Ik dude… It’s like when they need us we are always available to them to listen to their problem or help them out… Etc but when we need someone to hear us no one is there

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Arcane @thearcane1908

Absolutely… That cravings will never stop. Sometimes we look for strangers to share our problems / feelings. We might have friends along, but couldn’t share with them in the fear of being judged. Even if strangers become friends, we look for another stranger to share with.

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Rishi Bariya @ggdrbdnd

Hii

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N S @neeraj_sahani

So, they are people like me every where who are searching for random friends and see where it leads to.

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Anonymous

Well tats exactly my problem too … n if v have the same interests v both can be friends…

kamalesh Madhu @kamalesh20...

Hi

Rushikesh @rehan_0884

Hii please reply do khuch person bolna hai freind

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Anonymous

Omg I have so many friends too but I feel like they’re just with me for like personal gain and I hate it
I need real friends you know

mani kumar @fresh_candle

My self mani …i ak from India. What you said about friend that was very nice. I also searching for a good friend in online sites .i think i need your friendship like how you want in the same way i also need a friend like you…will you be my friend 🤗🤗

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@zero15m

Just be quite and sit beside yr friend and spend the entire time jus being quite
As after a point u do not feel like sharing, as it does not works

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Anonymous

Honestly same, like I have a few friends but not enough and I’m never invited to their birthday parties etc… so I get it
We can be friends thoughhhh

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