Sometimes I crave for friends while having friendsβ¦ As those friends are with me because of any benefit they wantβ¦ The most difficult work is to find a good friendβ¦ Now Iβm trying to find a friend on a strangers site β¦ I wish their would be anyone like me β¦ Who also crave for friends while having friendsβ¦ Hope Iβll find a good friend with whom I can share my problems β¦
I understand. I desperately want friends even though I have a few, but it doesnβt always feel like it. I understand where youβre coming from. Know that itβs OK
Umm thnqβ¦
Simran @st1199
Hello!
Maybe the reason for craving is that you donβt feel friendly enough to be with them or inside your heart you know you wonβt count on them when asked who all are your friends, is what I am trying to guess?
If this is the case, itβs better to be yourself and let be alone and process whether you actually want them or you are beside them so as to have or at least get a sense of βfriend circleβ feel.
Itβs good that you are trying to find a friend who matches your vibe and understands you at a deeper level. Itβs hard but sometimes things happen unexpectedly. Itβs not important that you get the exact replica but that one who understands and knows your actions and supports and revokes you at certain times. π
Yeah youβre somewhat guessing right β¦ I donβt feel friendly with them anymore β¦ And I had stopped talking with them β¦ yeah I know that itβs difficult to find anyone like that β¦ But Iβll try β¦ Hope Iβll succeedβ¦ Whether Iβll succeed or not but Iβll get busy for sometimeβ¦and thatβs the main thing for me nowβ¦ To divert my mind β¦
Simran @st1199
Good. Slowly and gradually we can overcome this.
If it feels right to stop talking and you donβt feel bad not talking to them, you are in a great place.
I hope you find what you are looking for!πΌ
dhvani @dhvanee
You must be feeling so, because you feel that they donβt care about your feelings, and sharing your problems with them wonβt help you out. They might seem to be friends who just take advantage of your friendship and get their work done, and then, theyβre gone until the next time they want help from you. You must be feeling that they donβt account you as a such a friend, that you used to account them like. They must be seeming to you as untrue friends. This happens to me too, at many a times, and I wish I had a true friend too, but still I need to pretend having a good friendship with them. I had to convince myself into believing that true friends donβt exist, and thatβs how the world keeps going. Iβve got a few genuinely good friends, but Iβve lost faith in true friendship. Is that how you feel too?
Yeah itβs absolutely same β¦ I had now made a distance from them as I canβt hold up that anymoreβ¦ Well yeah true friendship is really difficult or may be impossible to findβ¦ Well good luck as u got some genuine friends β¦ Iβm happy for thatβ¦ Thnq for the response β¦ As when someone reply to me β¦ I feel better β¦ That well their is someone who is listening and understanding what I want to say β¦
dhvani @dhvanee
It was a pleasure to share my part of the story with you.
Can we be friends.
Umm thnqβ¦ Yeah we can be friendsβ¦
Are u ashutosh priyadarshi
Sorry! Um no β¦ Iβm not that person
Hi, am kinda in the same situation. Looking for a friend who is genuine. we can be friends here. Maybe we might help each other out
Riyaπ¦ @uniiiiiiiii
Ik dudeβ¦ Itβs like when they need us we are always available to them to listen to their problem or help them outβ¦ Etc but when we need someone to hear us no one is there
Arcane @thearcane1908
Absolutelyβ¦ That cravings will never stop. Sometimes we look for strangers to share our problems / feelings. We might have friends along, but couldnβt share with them in the fear of being judged. Even if strangers become friends, we look for another stranger to share with.
Rishi Bariya @ggdrbdnd
Hii
N S @neeraj_sahani
So, they are people like me every where who are searching for random friends and see where it leads to.
Well tats exactly my problem too β¦ n if v have the same interests v both can be friendsβ¦
kamalesh Madhu @kamalesh20...
Hi
Rushikesh @rehan_0884
Hii please reply do khuch person bolna hai freind
Omg I have so many friends too but I feel like theyβre just with me for like personal gain and I hate it
I need real friends you know
mani kumar @fresh_candle
My self mani β¦i ak from India. What you said about friend that was very nice. I also searching for a good friend in online sites .i think i need your friendship like how you want in the same way i also need a friend like youβ¦will you be my friend π€π€
Just be quite and sit beside yr friend and spend the entire time jus being quite
As after a point u do not feel like sharing, as it does not works
Honestly same, like I have a few friends but not enough and Iβm never invited to their birthday parties etcβ¦ so I get it
We can be friends thoughhhh