So Ummm Can Anyone Help me
My situation it’s my first time facing this and i even hate my reactions and behaviour
So i have a girlfriend for about one and a half week now but it’s a long distance relationship and the chances of us meeting is 10 in a 100 And before i was in a relationship i got a huge crush on a girl with whom is share the same college with .
Before i was in a relationship she had a bf but then they broke up
Now everytime i see her in class , her simle and all I can’t stop staring , Im too deeply in love with her
What should i do? Anyone please help
Earlier you loved her then you made a gf this proves that you did not love her , now you again started crushing on her which means you are not in love with anyone . So leave both and study.
The feelings you having is very legit since its your crush but how much are you infatuated is not clear. So better you get to know her you can be sure of it. You can be attracted towards anyone so its not better you drop the relationship everytime you have a new crush. Feelings change like a constant. Its not fair to your girlfriend or you either way to fall into temptations. And longdistance is hard. May be that could be the reason why you r feeling it. Talk to your girlfriend more everyday…atlest 5mins to just how the day went. It can help!
Kishan Prasad @kishan12345
Hey ive been in your place, the only thing you can do is the one you like in your class if she is willing to get close or willing to be more than friends then you have the rights to be with her cause if you stay with your current gf then most of the time you will be thinking about her and later if you break up she will get hurt so its better you see if you have a chance with the girl in your class go for her if not then you know what to do
I hope things turn out good😁
Wanderer @wanderer_
See, crush is generally Infatuation and it will go away, think over your relationship whether you like that girl or are you just casually dating
It’s okay to have feelings of Infatuation for someone else as long as you realise that you love the person you are with.
And if it’s just casual then you can pursue your crush but make it abundantly clear to your partner.
First thing… If you would have literally be in love with your gf … You wouldn’t have fallen for your colleague. So do a good thing confess this to your gf and don’t do wrong by her side.
Double date till you figure out who you prefer to date in long term but if you are cought its on you brother.
Seriously you are advising him to double date 🤦🏼♀️
Yeah , the only suggestion I have for him as he is really confused in this situation , and if he was in love with his present girlfriend he wouldn’t have thought of , so he must figure things out
Yeah … Ik … Figuring out things is really important but double date is never solution… He’ll end up losing both of them.
Yeah , I kinda meant that only what you are saying that’s why I said ,“its on you if you are caught”
Bro if you love someone you don’t look anywhere. It’s all hormonal right now. You must explain this to your girlfriend. If she really loves you she will understand and help you through it. Talk to her over phone about your crush. It may be awkward but it’s atleast good to tell her.
