So this thing has been really troubling me for quite some time now. There was this friend of mine in college whom i really considered as a close friend of mine. Turned out she was nothing but a person who pretended to be one. Talking ill about me behind my back, spreading rumors about me. As soon I came to know about this , I wanted to confront her right there and then but couldn’t coz I was in some strange way always intimidated by her(strange enough when i think of it now). Then we graduated last year and went our separate ways. But till upto this day, I somehow haven’t got a closure regarding this. I really don’t wanna confront her about this now as it will be so weird. But to be honest want to let go of this pent up feeling of anger and hatred and wanna have some mental piece…But how do i do this?😔
Make a note. Write everything you wanna say to her, how you feel, what you went through. Save it. And then delete that file along with that anger and feeling of hatred. You deserve the peace of mind but you shouldn’t bring yourself down to her level by talking to her again. Delete the contact and that chapter.
and you shouldn’t
Thank you so much for such a comforting advice😄 I will do that for sure!
Glad I could be of some help…
You know people will talk behind your back, i would simply say if you give your energy to her again, she will do what she did again
True
