So one of my friends (amey) today wanted to talk to me bout stuff he was bothering with .... So one of the person from my group(shreyas) told this friend of my mine that she(me) is not a good girl ...she just goes out with any possible guy who hits up on her .....n although I'm single he told my friend that she is having a boyfriend....
But dude(s) why would uh do tht!!!!we were good friends n i haven't said or done anything bad to him or to his girlfriend... And still he said all these bad things bout me .....

Yeah but from my pov ha ....if uh spread rumour bout a girl in college it stays there forever!!!!n now I'm unable to take it out of my head!!!

Yeahhh maybe I will ask him why he did tht ....but the college authorities just don't take any actions related to this stuff

Well, if I were you, I would be more confident cuz I know the truth and that's what matters darling. People say 1000s of things but when you don't care, they eventually die..❤

Depression

I'm feeling lost..
I was talking to this guy for months. I was quite attracted to him. Our conversations were effortless. Everything was going great then I talked to him about relationship. At start he was ready for serious relationship but after 2 days he was like this attachment between us affecting my work. We can't go like this ,i don't want to get attached to you. I was like we can try if it doesn't work then we'll just end this but don't leave like this .
But he isn't ready n I'm trying to understand his reasons.
I got attached so much i can't seem to make terms with it. I'm feeling pain in my chest and i dont have friends to whom I can share how I'm feeling.
Once again I'm all alone with my thoughts. 
Should I convince him to try once or accept n move on.

One Sided Love

I'm in a 4year old relationship. Everything was fine for first 1.5 year then things started changing between us. He's still loyal and faithful but his puts no effort in this relationship. He says he loves me but his actions are opposite. How doesn't have time for me and there goes weeks when we don't even chat. He never calls. Even texts are rare. I have never expected anything more than his time. I have always given my 100% but I don't know what to do now. He's a nice person but when it comes to relationship it's like I don't exist for him. What should I do?

Love

currently I am feeling so confused. I am in a complicated relationship from the past 3 years. Now my bf doesn't contacts me frequently he never asks me how am I  doing or how was my day and even I am tired of trying too hard for him. He sometimes only face times me that too not very often like I know he is absolutely not into me but he never says the truth atleast we could breakup but no he never says anything and by his behaviour I have already known that he is not in love with me. We are also in a long distance relationship and we haven't met from a long time and he even stopped contacting me now only facetimes when he wills just for 2 mins that's all.
 What should I do now? Please advice me

Frustration

My second husband is older to me by 15 years. But he have his previous wife n they have two kids between them.  They separated for more than 18 years but my hubby bore every responsibility in his kids studies for which m happy,glad n proud but I really get angry when he sends money secretly or gift his previous wife costly things when he always tells me of his financial plights. I wonder sometimes whether my future is safe with him. My account balance is only 7000. Even if I leave him u don't have anywhere to go n bcoz of dat I have to b wit him coz he is da provider of the roof above my head.  I only wish dat I can earn enough to pay my house rent n survive. 

Relationships

Edit: I think I'm getting attracted towards X again...

I met someone online, really liked his company. After 2 months of constant talking, he just stopped talking to me. Let’s call him X.
I felt very lost and hopeless for 2-3 months after that. Then he calls me & wants to become friends again. Meanwhile, I became really close to someone else who filled in the gap. Let’s call him Y.
And I met Y first and we became really close. In fact, we’re very comfortable around each other. He helped me get through some of the toughest moments of my life including borderline depression. Recently, he confessed to me & I like him a little too. v platonic again.
Soon after, X was in town & we met too. Totally platonic excepting holding hands (although he said he wanted something more). But I was so angry at him because he’d ghosted me & he gave me an explanation after 8 months. I wanted to meet him to tell him that I don’t want to engage in his company. Instead, he said he likes me & wants to take this ahead. Of course, all my feelings came back and I couldn’t hold back. I feel like I want to forgive him but his mood swings are erratic. I have 10 days left in the city & I don’t know who to choose & how to get over X.
I told X that it’s too late now & I’ve met someone else. but the ‘if’ always remains. What if he hadnt left.
I know I’ll regret being with him but he stood me up. And it’s been a bad phase. And I cant think of anything else but how to get over it. And Y has been such a good friend. Although I dont feel so strongly for him but I do love his company.
Am I cheating on any of them???

Someone please stop me from texting him.
I don't know it's anxiety panic or something else,but i'm having this irritating urge to talk to him.
But if i do so it will hurt me further can someone just brainwash me.

Breakup

I feel lonely.. I have only one friend and we were talking and txting with each other regularly. But from past few days his offline college started .. even I started my job training.. yes we both have other busy schedules maybe colg or work. Even though I'm busy I make sure I make time for him and txt him or call him *only after his colg hours* so that I won't disturb him. But he always spends more time with his college friends and goes home by night 9.. after that he will says I'm tired.. I will have my dinner and get back to you.. but then after dinner he says I've not watched tv from morning I'll watch some shows and my mind will get refreshed by that and I'll txt u after the show. On the other end I will be waiting waiting and waiting for him and he goes to sleep watching tv. The nxt morning he says I was really tired so I slept off I'm really sorry.
This really makes me feel unwanted.
Even though I have a great family.. I want   my friend back.... I don't know if I'm expecting too much from him or whether he's totally busy .

My ex made me hate myself in every possible way. My self-esteem became almost nonexistent. Crying daily and wishing I was somebody else. Someone better than him. Someone, he wouldn't have been able to manipulate and use. I was always there for him and did everything he asked for. All because I was blinded by love. I had such trust in him that I told him my deepest and most personal problems. However, that wasn't enough. I wasn't enough yet I tried everything trying to be. Changed myself, my way of talking, my friends, my behavior towards others, my likes and dislikes, trying to be miss perfect and he wouldn't leave me. He left me eventually and his persona changed completely. He isn't that sweet boy he once was. The boy who would ride his bike every possible day to visit me. His favorite thing to do was cuddling with me and telling me how much he liked me. Making me feel like the prettiest girl in the world. He is not the boy I fell in love with. He is now a fuckboy who states I was toxic and he was pressured into being with me. He is now happier making out with a different girl every night out and his mindset is how many girls he can fuck in one night. I guess that is something I need to understand.  Love is less valuable than sex and doesn't matter how much I tried to show him how much he meant to me. A thick girl good in bed will always beat me.

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