So I’ve been talking to this guy for about a month now. We’ve become pretty close and enjoy each other’s company. But something inside me feels like he’s going to leave or that I’ll mess up some how. Every time I’ve spoken to a guy they always end up leaving me. I put my all into the people I love and who i find are important. But after every person I put myself into i don’t seem to get the same energy back. And with him I feel like I’m slowly losing him and I can feel that he’s starting to get bored of me. I’m not sure if I’m over thinking or if it’s actually happening. I’m too afraid to tell him what’s on my mind because I fear he’ll get put off by it. I don’t know what to do. I feel as if I’m just over analyzing this whole thing. I need some advice :(
Damn, your post helped me out. I tend to do the same too, we give too much love which I don’t think is bad. The only bad thing is that we give soo much love that we expect it back at the same level and not everyone shows their love that way. What you (or I should say, what we need to do) is focus on ourselves too. Don’t put all your energy on your other half, focus on YOU. The both of you guys can bring your own interests to the table and support each other.
