So I am seeing a guy from a month..and we had a plan to meet tomorrow...so today I asked him...he literally said he has lack of money rn and if I could fund this whole thing...now he spent money on alcohol last night.  He said he didn't want to he was expecting split of bill from his friends. So on call I said you can spend money on alcohol but not on our meet. Was I wrong?

On the first date he paid...and then after that we met thrice and bills were split.

I feel good...but at times I think he is money minded..

You deserve better...you deserve someone whose disciplined with his cash not this hero

Confusion

I(female) need an advice...so basically I dont have alot of friends and I do have habit of talking to my only bffs since childhood...i need to give dem every detail...but mt bestie moved to diff colg(2016) and i had no1 so i started talkimg to strangers..which only lasted short term..I have a bf(4 years strong) and our relation had some ups and downs...i got back to texting/chatting my cousin/friend(male) which my bf didnt liked..considering his feelings i reduced the amount of talking wid my cousin and cleared the boundaries and let him know i have a bf...also last year i found dis app which i used to get advice from people and this year when i installed it for the same. Reason i connected with a few ppl and made friends with one guy..we talked 10 days or so. He was a nice person so the convo lasted but eventually i uninstalled the app...when i came back he told me he is uninstalling the app and i was fine by it...told my bf abut this frnd and he is upset dat i keep talking to strangers(guys) and  letting dem know about personal life. What shud i do to fix thiss?

Ok so i talked with this guy every day for months and thoda adat bhi hogaya but now he doesn’t  just text like i feel all this was fake and feel sad that he doesn’t like me the way i do 


If anyone knows how get over someone you've never actually dated, please let me know. I loved this guy for a year and a half. We still talk every single day because we are still best friends. 😔

Breakup

If I get sick, I don't expect him to be by my side. He often leaves when we have fights, so I don't expect that he will take care of me when the time comes. 

Emotional Abuse

I can't believe its been more than 6 months and I still check on him daily.
We haven't exchanged a single word since January, but I can't seem to be able to let go.
I was the one to walk away first, as he always predicted, but he tore my world apart. I cried, and screamed, and self harmed, and missed him like crazy, and then cried some more. But I didn't give in, and I didn't reach out, and I kept my word and my dignity. "I don't stay where I'm not valued". So I walked away and for him, it was just as simple. I didn't let him see my pain behind my decision. 
But what has that been for? I still miss him, I still want to reach out, I still wonder what is he up to. I still remember his daily schedule. I still wonder at all times if he ever thinks of me.
He always said he doesn't miss people. That he was never going to leave, but if I ever left, he would be sad, yet he wouldn't miss me. I thought it would make it easier. It didnt.  
And even after all this... he reached out first. If a like on Instagram could be called "reaching out".
And it's like being back to day 1.

Depression

I was taking with a guy, the conversation felt good and fluid. We are supposed to see each other on Thursday and now it’s been a day that he hasn’t response the last text I sent him. I feel he is not going to talk me again and I don’t know why or if
I did something wrong. Why can’t people just be direct and say how they feel? Now I’m constantly checking my phone waiting for that text from him. I’m feeling very anxious.

Overthinking

Basically, I became friends with some guy online and me and him liked each other's presence, so we added each other and talked all the time. he randomly stopped messaging me back and at first, I didn't pay it no mind, but I missed him so while I was reminiscing and looking at old chats, I saw one of his friend's social media and added them. they didn't accept and then recently I added them again and they finally accepted! I was asking for his social media and stuff they were like "Why do you need it?" and "How do you know them?" I explained it and then they gave me his social media account. I was really nervous about it all and was messaging my friends about the whole situation, I finally followed him and messaged him, I said I missed him, but he was like who are you, and I was talking about old things we did but I guess he really didn't care to remember, and I was kind of saddened by that. He was being all mean and asking who I was aggressively I finally told him about who I was, and he remembered me, but the guy is really stubborn, so I guess he wanted to act like he didn't know who I was to begin with. Anyway, we got a little closer, and I realized he changed. He was now some drug obsessed guy who cursed in almost every sentence and gets involved with the police and stuff a lot. I ignored it all because I really was obsessed with the guy and even after all that ignoring, he now doesn't even acknowledge me properly and just leaves me on read. It's like am I supposed to not feel bad? How do I get over this guy!!

Crush

So I did a mistake broke up like 20 days ago with a guy college and recently proposed another guy from college cause I felt we will make a great pair and he's nice but he too had a break up recently and is still not over it I am worried what he thinks about me that I am desperate or what not will there be any chances of me coming with him in a relationship as he said no for now he will see what it is in coming future ! 

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