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mouuu @mou_smriya

So hi again…here is a friend of mine…so he literally confessed to me…and he’s the handsome popular guy of our college…he is giving me two days time to sort out my feelings…I only see him as my best guyfriend… what should I do???..and the way he expressed his feelings it was too emotional…and I am confused like how can he love me…we literally fight everyday…and everyone sees is a couple…I don’t know how should I sort this out??

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Sumanth H V @sumanth_h_v

U can be with him as friend

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mouuu @mou_smriya

Hmmmm 🤔

Sumanth H V @sumanth_h_v

Do u have any feelings on him

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Anonymous

From my suggestion . I will say that if you have a bit of feelings for him … even a little bit then you should accept his confession but if you don’t feel like you guys should be in a relationship then you should not accept it . As it can destroy your friendship too ! Because in a relationship we have to Manage many things as compared to a friendship.! Do whatever your heart says …

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mouuu @mou_smriya

Thanks 🤧

Vinay @vinay_074

If you say yes then your friendship may break in future…love creat insecurity in relationship…you must have to say him about the difference of best friend and boyfriend…

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mouuu @mou_smriya

Yhh🤔

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Anonymous

A kinda same thing happened to me, he was somewhat popular among girls as he has a good personality and I figured out I did like him a bit so I told him I did but the thing with us was that we didn’t want to be a couple, we both wanted to stay as friends and focus on our studies. I sometimes think if I really like him or just admire him for his personality. You should just clearly tell him what u feel, I am sure he will understand if he really likes you.

Don’t know if this will help you but yea…

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mouuu @mou_smriya

I really helped me thanks😃

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Anonymous

Mm… So I’m not going to suggest you anything but gonna give you a reference reply which you can use incase your answer is no…
“As an answer to your proposal I believe its no. I am not saying i am not ready for a relation or smthng. I can choose to go on casual dates. I repeat casual dates. But we guys aren’t casual. We are really special to each other. I really like spending times together. We are good friends. We share a really special bond. Let’s not give this bond a tag of lovers” 🤧

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mouuu @mou_smriya

Yh definitely will copy some sentences from here

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Anonymous

Are you a bengali by any chance?

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Anonymous

No why do I look like Bengali🤣

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Anonymous

Noo… Your name sounded like that 😅

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Anonymous

Ohh

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fiction @letter

See everyone has their own opinion Even I can give you an opinion but does that matter anyways you will do what you think is perfect for you and believe me you should do it because if at the end it will not work out MAYBE then atleast you will know that it was your decision not someone else’s! I hope you understand what I mean

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Anonymous

Yh I got rhat😣

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Anonymous

Listen to your intuition. It’s always right

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Anonymous

Hmm

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