So here’s the thing, my boyfriend has a very dark past using drugs (usually cocaine and others) to let’s just say a point that he end up in probation (At this time, this is when we first met. At work not at probation) and when we first started dating I didn’t really thought much of his past. I was just glad he was doing better. After a year later he is out of probation and I usually smoke weed before going to bed due to anxiety and unable to sleep. He started smoking with me at night with small amount as I usually do. Then he started smoking on his own, going from half joint to smoking 4-6 blunts/ joints a day in a 2-months timeframe. (He’s only been smoking again for 2 months and already smokes this much). My point is that idk if it is my anxiety but I am super afraid that he will go back to the person who he was, which was an drug addicted. As their partner im concern for his wellbeing and the stability of our relationship… I brought my concerns to his attention and he says im overthinking and I have nothing to worry about. does anyone think I’m overthinking? Can anyone give me some tips maybe on how to relate to him or what to watch for? I have never been around a drug addicted or an ex-drug addicted and I want to be as understanding as I can with the whole situation. Please any advice or comments.
Rain @raininglotus
His tolerance is probably higher than yours due to his past with cocaine. I wouldn’t say to worry about it unless he starts to act differently. Just cause you smoke weed doesn’t Mean you will relapse to a harder drug. Alot of recoving drug addicts use weed to help with their cravings.
