So a bit of background: I changed to the same school as my bestfriend this year so she already has a TON of friends. anyways so I like this one guy who I met at her house because he’s her friend. Last year my friend told me that he had a crush on me. I did not Rlly think anything of it because at this point I had never met him. Then I met him a few weeks ago and got a crush. So of course right on time. My bestfriend tells me that’s guysshe knows has a crush on me. Of course i am pumped, because I thought it was the guys she liked. Then she told me that he was not coming over to her house later. The guys that I liked was. She will not tell me who likes me so I stole her phone (jn our friendship this is OK and funny) and the guys I liked was texting her about me a lot. Now she will not tell me who likes me and it sucks cuz im in middle school and all of my friends have boyfriends. I don’t know what to do and I need advice
Simran @st1199
Hi!
Why wouldn’t your friend tell you who he is? What difference it will make?
Just ask her seriously and tell her why she doesn’t want anything to happen between you and the guy.
Also, just because your friends are dating doesn’t mean you also need to date someone. It’s not an obligation nor a necessity nor any kind of social status so just you know.
I think she told him she wouldnt tell. witch makes it all worse becuase, why does she valuse him more then me as a friend. we have gone through so much togther that I’m scared she might be pranking me. And I get that I don’t have tp date somebody, but I was over a friends house last night and all of their boyfriends were there and they were all cuddeled up watching this movie and I was just sitting by myself on the floor
Simran @st1199
Then there is a valid point. Just because you are more close doesn’t mean she has to break his trust, friendship and trust don’t work this way. But at the same time, when she told you that someone does like what is the point of not telling then, it’s just building up the curiosity in you.
Also, I guess you are just hoping that the guy you like, likes you back and hence you yourself are keeping up the expectations even if turns out to be a prank. Then, you all should have known how it will end and will make you feel left out because it’s pretty obvious. Hence, that’s a part of a thing which you agreed upon while planning out.
