Since the pandemic hit, it has been freaking hard to socialize with people outside my friend group. I get anxious and people always point it out. ‘‘Why are you so quite’’ ‘‘YOURE SO SHYYYY’’ ‘‘Are u ok’’? ‘‘Do you even smile’’ ‘‘Why are you so awkward’’ + I really feel shy and anxious making eye contact (huge turnoff i know) but its only because i get really anxious and insecure
These sentences really make me want to not talk to the person anymore. I don’t like it when someone points it out for me that i am that. BECAUSE I KNOW. and when they do, i really feel awkward and shut up. Now i rreally want to change this, i want to socialize and get out of my comfort zone. I mean i have close friends that are there for me and understand me, and they know who i really am.I am a kind of quite person until i get comfortable around you, then i am not shy. But now these sentences are all i hear.So any advice what to do? i really want to change this because next year i graduate. and i need the social charisma…
GOD!!! I needed a person who could understand these things.
People constantly pester me to speak and socialize. I thought everyone around me is an EXTROVERT. Good, you understand my pain.
So, what I do to avoid all this is just smile and show them a middle finger (of course in my mind LOL)
Just smile & walk away dude because this society won’t allow us INTROVERTS to live in peace. That’s all you could do.
OMMMMMMG isn’t it just sooooooo freaking annoying when people just point out something like this? like what do you want me to say to that!? you just turned off the conversation and made it MORE awkward dude!
People like this make it so hard to strike a conversation and keep it going
I mean i was comfortable but now as i am reaching the age where i graduate and start going out looking for jobs, i want to break this habit of being quite and shy and getting out of the comfort zone so i can be good afterwards in socializing :‘’)
What should we do!! Take a personality Development class? Why is it that always introverts have to adjust and learn everything. Why cant extroverts do a class where they are taught to shut their fuckin mouth.
Hi I know how it’s feels I’m also like this and because of that I suffer alot when meeting people talking something Its all depend on ur taking first step that’s what I found out about,I got scared all time when going outside or talking with someone for no reason it’s just I couldn’t do it but this days I started slowly just take first step and everything works out.
I am trying too. how is it going for you? like what do u even reply to a sentence like ‘‘why are you so quite or shy’’? lol
I’m not shy I like talking with people I feel comfortable otherwise just smile when they Say u are shy and walk away. That what I do mostly
