should I tell my mom that I’m self harming
No bro they will freak out but instead of telling them this you should try to tell them your real problem…
okay thank you
If you wanna talk either you can connect or can talk here…
Kavya @kav1
okay we can connect
Manish @haider001
Ok sure…
You wanna talk? I’m not sure what the correct approach to this situation is but at least I can listen to you
Kavya @kav1
okay let’s connect
is it because of anger you are doing self harm or there is something else? cuz i used to do the same but with the time i got to know that it isn’t taking me anywhere, i still have marks on my hand and they might not go away , but you will realise that the thing you are harming yourself for isn’t as much important as your health. Please stop doing it and reach out to someone. Open up yourself. 🥺
yeah it is because i get angry and sad and i don’t know what do but thanks i really want help because it is bad and i want to stop
and why do you get angry that you end harming yourself?
idk from small things
try to control it , when you feel like you are getting angry, just shut everything out, do not hear, do not speak, do not see, be a statue. do not react to anything. it took me 2 years to self control but ya worth it🥲🥲🥲 i still have marks of few of them
ohh I’m glad you are over it
yess, you will also , just you need to learn controlling your anger:)
yess thank you so much
btw i told my parents that i do self harm, those who say they might panic, imo they won’t, they will just start taking caring of you more than ever so i suggest to tell them what exactly is the problem
I was just reading your conversations and I’m sorry to butt in,but I think that you are a really good person ,i just wanted to say that
yes okay I’ll try
yes I agree the person is really nice helped me so much
are you telling me i am a good person?👀
I hope you feel better too,if you are in a position to get professional help i hope you’ll consider it,harming yourself rarely solves anything
You want me to take it back xD???
naa naa thankyou😋, it makes me happy when someone tell me that i was helpful or nice. thankyou so much
i talked to my mom about professional help but can’t tell her about self harm it will scare the shit out of her
i would suggest to let your scars heal and then tell her but you need to tell her, they are your parents.
okay my sister found about it too
thanks though
It would freak them out to be honest,but there could be a possibility that they will freak out at first,but they just might be quite understanding too ,so it goes both ways ,also if you do het professional help,if you are underage ,your doctor is liable to inform your parents about your self harms so they will get to know about it eventually
no problem🥰
oh my god they’ll freak out for sure because i have told them about something 1 year ago
i shouldn’t have self harmed in the first place
heal your scars and then tell them they will understand
What’s done is done,so from now on ,make a promise to yourself to find better ways to cope with any negative emotion you feel,I don’t know what works for for,but personally for me,journalling ,writinb about what angers me ,helps to a certain extent,it gives me space to clear my head ,so i hope you consider this option and see if it works,if it doesn’t there are so many ways,but none of them works,professional help
Doesn't matter @mini_3
Hey ! I really think your parents deserve to know that you are doing this ! They ought to know you feel and I bet they will come up with a good solution for your problems . We often think that they know nothing about us when they are the ones who made us ! And please don’t self harm because …there is so much life left for us to see. Good or bad just remember that this too shall
Pass
