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DGEN X2022 @theniceguybut

People say move on but if itโ€™s that easy.
Have been struggling with this phase since past 3 months still not over it.
Being in the same workplace, whenever I see her my mood just swings downright to sadness, hate mode and canโ€™t overcome no matter what I think
Her choice of breaking her with her previous bf and now having relationship with one of my better placed friend is really bothering me . Canโ€™t really stand her its becoming so uncomfortable seeing her in office ,canโ€™t stay in the same room ,canโ€™t talk normally in presence of her.

  It's getting hard to keep me emotionally together. Any help how to fix this...And tips how to move on working out for me...
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Anonymous
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So brother, why did u 2 broke up

DGEN X2022 @theniceguybut

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Nahi bhai, she was already. in relationship before joining in our office.Then she was single for a while I proposed he she rejected saying she is in relationship.Amd she is in relationship with a friend of mine ,Better paid than me and probably her ex as well

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Anonymous
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Ohhโ€ฆeven though i cant suggest a good solution, i can completely understand u. But she has her own reasons and u should be able able to respect them even it is difficult. I know its hard to accept things but if you go on like this it will only kill your own happiness and peace.
I too had gone through somewhat similar situation but that was after a breakup. Stuffs like seeing that person dating someone in front of me was really frustrating. But i dnt think there is a particular solution to this. Just try to ignore such things as much as possible and concentrate on ur career and life. Give motivations to urself. Dnt worry, u r gonna meet ur true love soonโ€ฆgood luck bhai

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DGEN X2022 @theniceguybut

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Thank you for your kind words.I too believe in getting ahead with my life ,leaving all these .However it has been 3 months but still Iโ€™m not over it ,thatโ€™s why I was worried.I donโ€™t want to ruin my life over a rejection but sometimes it is like overwhelming ,like I canโ€™t take any more of this

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Anonymous
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Never feel downโ€ฆu can overcome this โ€ฆu r strongโ€ฆbut the only thing is u have to believe thisโ€ฆu can do itโ€ฆ

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