Parents completely forget how deep they can wound their own child. And it’s a never ending process of constantly trying not to give up. It’s quite easy for people to say “don’t let it affect you”. But when you breathe the same air all the time, you can’t really hold you breath can you? I’ve been going through one of the lowest phases of my life and I don’t even know how to cope up with it. Trying this app to let my heart out and hope it helps me some way or the other.
khan @arbia_khan
It will be okay. Ik parents can act sometimes without thinking, but you have to be strong. You know they are parents for the first time and they haven’t attended any parenting classes or something like that. Go easy on them and on yourself too ❤️
Yes I totally get your point. But should one do when things have been constantly reoccurring in the same way since last 12-15 years. My father had an affair when i was little, although I didn’t understand what was happening but I’ve seen my mother breaking down so badly and all of this happened when my elder sibling was studying abroad. So it was just me and my growing up with the trauma, after a very long time I finally decided to let it go but once again this same thing has resurfaced again in my life. When you take a negative decision for past 12-15 years and continue it, it’s never a mistake. And parents aren’t that clueless to do all this at the first place, I’ve no one to talk to about this as this is way too personal and things have been heating up in my head recently. Bdw thank you kind stranger to listening to me and giving me support. ♥️
khan @arbia_khan
Sorry to hear all of that and that you had to go through this alone. You are so strong to have gone through all this alone but sometimes strong people need someone to talk to, that will make your heart lighter. And if you can’t trust some outside, you can always talk to your sibling, they will listen to you. And rest you know better what to do ❤️
endless_thought... @whatyouthinkin_
Thank you for understanding and the support kind stranger.
