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Okay. So my day went pretty shitty. I donโ€™t know why people have to make me feel so bad about myself. Every person i talk to. It feels like they are stabbing me. Iโ€™m scared to talk to anyone. Iโ€™m too sensitive in terms of emotions and every damn friend of mine plays with my emotions. Either Iโ€™m too bad or Iโ€™m too bad. Now i have considered this.
There is this one friend of mine and she gets offensive about every lil thing i joke about. It makes me feel so bad. It makes me feel like i am the worst. We talk on video call and she doesnโ€™t have earphones and i just said that do you like someone. She got so angry and said really unpleasant things to me. Even today her friends were taking her hamsters and they were wrapped in some clothing so i jokingly said that where are you taking this dead body. She did the same thing. It makes me feel so damn angry and upset at the same time. I feel really really bad today

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@queenn
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Its okay somedays you will be filled with happinessโ€ฆ someday you will feel sad, angry or frustratedโ€ฆits not about what she did โ€ฆ because you canโ€™t control herโ€ฆ right naโ€ฆbut what you can doโ€ฆis to understand that everyone having their own perspectiveโ€ฆmaybe she thinks she is rightโ€ฆ maybe she doesnโ€™t feel comfortable with your jokesโ€ฆ it can happenโ€ฆtalk to her if you feel okay with itโ€ฆ every person is different know.?

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Anonymous
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I know what i joke about and like itโ€™s not some kinda jokes even if the slightest thing that upsets her she took it out on me. Anyways i had tried to talk it out to her and she just says sorry again and then again. Iโ€™ll try to figure it out thank you for trying to sort though ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

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@queenn
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Im glad if i being useful for you in anyway

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@aachi
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Itโ€™s fine. Try talking to her, like address all of this to her. If still it does help then, Stop hanging around her and be w other people. Clearly you guys donโ€™t go w each other. Humor difference is a serious issue indeed.

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Anonymous
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Thanks man . I think you understood that Iโ€™m not a teenager crying about a friend of mine. She doesnโ€™t mean that much to me i just donโ€™t like being treated in that way

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@aachi
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Yes! Thereโ€™s plenty of fish in the sea.๐Ÿคท๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ All the best!

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@jiya20
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See you are not bad
you have just gave your Carโ€™s stearing wheel of happiness to someone else
think about it

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Anonymous
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No actually i have not. Itโ€™s just if there will be a random person treating me badly i would handle that. But she is someone i know and she cared for me once so listening those words are not a pleasent thing. Iโ€™m a person who doesnโ€™t give a damn about anyone else. But these kinda things triggers something in me they remind me how once someone whom i used to love treated me so badly. Itโ€™s just this

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