Okay guys so I don’t like my relatives that much bcz from childhood they have discouraged me compared , even they know they are doing this yes they should do like that and make their kids into encourage and lifting them up ,and others feel like nothing ,it’s been years still this so called relatives doesn’t change but I have stood up for myself ,the thing is your parents will see all this things happening like others be like making fun of you like your so short like that, but still they will not support you , Insteas they will support them , they don’t understand how much you have gone through by all this still they tell like go and talk it’s ok they feel bad for them , but not for you , why? It really hurts when they don’t feel for you instead they think about others and feel sorry for them , I mean seriously why don’t think how much yours have been hurt but still alone should stand up for ourselves and done that …
Hey my relatives did the same thing to me. I empathize with you. I know it is so so so painful. But try not caring much about the and giving them the power to you. There is this quote, no one can hurt you without your own permission. Think about that. I guess with time i realised i did not need their assurance! Having my own assurance is enough.
Yes but when after all these years after you have gone through so much not only this , it’s not that easy to forget everything , but still it takes time
It truly does! Take your time dear friend! Don’t worry!
Things will be alright!
Hahahahaha I went through and go through the exact same thing and I was a kid areee it was sooo brutal on my self esteem and wahi parents hi support kiya they never stood up for me, I don’t expect now but atleast when I was a child and jab apne hi are agreeing with others what’s the point in blaming those relatives godd it was such a hard time I felt sooo timid and scared…now I really cry n laugh remembering it…those ppl still underestimate me and say things but now as I’m an adult it hardly matters and infact now I get that ye jealously hoti h when ppl can’t reach your level they try bring you down…so I’ll just say you don’t have to talk to every dog that barks, pigs k sath kheloge toh khud pe kichad lgega so in my case relatives stay afar so I completely stopped going there joined sports n all do that if possible of they are close to u just ignore little things and agr they get too personal decline them in a respectful n sarcastic way jyada sunoge bhi to jyada krenge keep urself at safe distance don’t let them enter ur personal space it worked for me…nakchadi bolte h but who cares really and parents ki baat toh yrrr kuch nhi kr skte I know it affects very badly but just keep working on yourself take it in a positive manner use it as a fuel to better yourself. Take care
Thank you yes but it takes time to forget everything as you have gone through much more than this
Yes it definitely take even with the distance I suffer I doubt myself more cz my own parents did that so it’s fine we don’t have to end it it’s not gonna vanish we just have to learn to coexist together and learn to let go with time
