Ok so I have this friend of mine sheβs really close to me and knows almost everything about me.
She knows that I am facing relationship issues and everytime she will give me some negative advice or something very negative like it wonβt work out and stuff. She wonβt support me.
Sheβs also in a relationship and I canβt even I imagine telling her that even yours wonβt work out. This is such an awful thing to say.
Draw boundaries and donβt ask her for relationship advice. If she still keeps doing it, confront her about it.
Last time only I did.
But itβs like as if only her relationship is perfect and otherβs just wonβt work out.
What kind of relationship issuesβ¦care to explain? Then we can tell if your friend js being genuine or not π
Yeah basically we broke 2 or 3 months back because of career and situation. We met recently. We both knew that we still have feelings for each other.
We were actually discussing about that as well.
So yeah this is the current situation.
Anony Mouse @zapadoz
Tell your friend whatever you want to say it will either improve your friendship or will lose a bad friend.
Simran @st1199
Hey,
Have you confronted her by asking why she says what she says? Is it genuine that you both wonβt work out or just donβt like your partner?
Either way, itβs important to understand her stance and let yours know.
And, if you genuinely think theirs wonβt work out or some things might lead to that situation, you should definitely let her know. β¨
She just doesnβt like him.
Whenever I shared something even like small fights she always had this negative reply.
Simran @st1199
In that case, you need to maintain boundaries. Try to share less so that you donβt get irritated with this whole thing again. We need to accept that sometimes our own close/best people may not like our partner and thatβs okay. π§‘