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Anonymous

Ok so I have this friend of mine she’s really close to me and knows almost everything about me.
She knows that I am facing relationship issues and everytime she will give me some negative advice or something very negative like it won’t work out and stuff. She won’t support me.
She’s also in a relationship and I can’t even I imagine telling her that even yours won’t work out. This is such an awful thing to say.

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Anonymous

Draw boundaries and don’t ask her for relationship advice. If she still keeps doing it, confront her about it.

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Anonymous

Last time only I did.
But it’s like as if only her relationship is perfect and other’s just won’t work out.

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Anonymous

What kind of relationship issues…care to explain? Then we can tell if your friend js being genuine or not 🙄

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Anonymous

Yeah basically we broke 2 or 3 months back because of career and situation. We met recently. We both knew that we still have feelings for each other.
We were actually discussing about that as well.
So yeah this is the current situation.

Anony Mouse @zapadoz

Tell your friend whatever you want to say it will either improve your friendship or will lose a bad friend.

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Simran @st1199

Hey,
Have you confronted her by asking why she says what she says? Is it genuine that you both won’t work out or just don’t like your partner?
Either way, it’s important to understand her stance and let yours know.

And, if you genuinely think theirs won’t work out or some things might lead to that situation, you should definitely let her know. ✨

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Anonymous

She just doesn’t like him.
Whenever I shared something even like small fights she always had this negative reply.

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Simran @st1199

In that case, you need to maintain boundaries. Try to share less so that you don’t get irritated with this whole thing again. We need to accept that sometimes our own close/best people may not like our partner and that’s okay. 🧡

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