Nobody can love a person like me. I’m always either terrified or emotionally numb or hollow on the inside. Being an abuse survivor, life seems scary enough to navigate through. I feel like pushing everyone away from me because they don’t need me.
Pushkar @pushkar254
Sorry for your child hood trauma, but life can be beautiful again
I have attachment issues and feel like pushing everyone who cares for me away from me. I’ve felt su¡c¡d@l many times as well.
Ok i have solutions, you can connect
Okay
Tia✨ @tia_rt
Stop killing urself firstly… Just read it please… Read once … Its you… And this is what you are talking about yourself… Come on dude… How can u even hope koi or acha sochega tumhare baare… Jb tum khud yai soch rhee ho…!!
I know. But loving myself, in fact respecting myself seems to be really hard for me.
Nirmika Jain @nirmika_jain
I also think that “Nobody Can Love A Person Like I Do”. But, about that last line that you’ve written, “Nobody Stays”. I have a few thoughts on that one, which I’ve build over time, after being hurt by so many people, after losing so many people in my life. My thoughts being that, we love deeply and are scared of loving people more than they love us, we’re scared of getting attached to people more than they get attached to us. So what we try our best to do is, we don’t let them in so easily. But, since there’s always a but, but still we let them in and then we get hurt. It’s a very common and repeated process because at the end of the day we’re the deep lovers. So about that last line, about people not staying, since we’ve always and left behind, we’re scared of attachments, so we follow a mechanism, which is, we hurt them before they hurt us, we leave them before they leave us, we push them away before they push us away. We do it, some people do it knowingly, so unknowingly. It’s a normal, a lot of people do it, to save themselves from having to deal with the aftermath, alone.
PS. I don’t wanna offend you in any way, and I really believe that you’re a beautiful and strong person to go through all that you went through and still be here. I was just putting out my views there. You can always delete the comment if you don’t like it.
You didn’t offend me at all. This holds true.
Nirmika Jain @nirmika_jain
Glad you think that way 😊
Hope @cureplace
I have same issue like you, it’s because of my past i guess.
but i push people out of my life, if they become wuite close
