Need someone who will listen to me non judgementally.
I am not saying he/she should encourage my wrong talks.
But if they feel what I feel is wrong they can let me realise it through soft words and not being very frank.
I don’t know why but I get offended when a person responds frankly/straight forward.
Being a mature guy its very difficult to get someone for this because being a guy means being tough always.
I wish my mother had miscarriage when I was in her womb.
Hey theree. There are people out there who will listen to you non-judgmentally and accept you and love you for who you are, I’m sure. You have this platform as well where you can be yourself and express whatever you feel.
There will be times in life when you will make mistakes or end up doing something wrong. People will point those out. Some might do in a negative manner just to put you down but there are also people who genuinely care about you and wouldn’t want anything bad happening with you. Try to gauge who those people are who are giving you positive criticism and don’t get offended by them.
Being mature and being a guy has no relation to being tough AT ALL. You can be mature and a guy and still have moments of weakness and doubt. You don’t have to always have it all together. It’s okay to cry, to breakdown and to open up infront of someone.
More love and power to you!