Need a suggestion I’m really confused & stressed about this shit…is there anyone who can help
I will try my best to help you.
Actually I’m already in relationship with a girl we truly love each other like she will everything what is possible to her but since these year starting
We are having communication issues we are not able to understand what our partner is trying to tell us
Did you observe any of the issues :
1.) you both find conversation monotonous now ?
2.) Did you both fight recently, which you both did not sorted out or negotiated to come to a common ground?
3.) Any insecurities like someone else being given attention. Or There is lack of confidence in certainty over the future , whether you both will stay together?
4.) You both are focusing on your future?
We both are focusing on future individually & because of job we are unable to connect at day time but after job she only talks when she is travelling at home after if I call then only little conversation will be there otherwise I have to wait for next day morning
I’m feeling like she is loosing interest in me like I’m getting mad to talk but she is Im ok with this I tried to talk about this topic
But she is not understanding she only tells that so what I do I always call you 2 times a day is that not enough I’m feeling bored about everything nowadays what’s my fault these are her answers
To kill the boredom, there must be a little bit of joy in it.
Okay how often do you both go out ?
As physical meeting is important.
And remember one thing, after a certain period of time relationship becomes boring. The things the sustains it is, willful desire to keep it.
So don’t look desperate to talk. Instead keep indulging in self growth.
I don’t know why, but women do find men attractive who she sees evolving for good.
And try to meet often, if you both are not meeting.
Go out, explore places together as it makes the bond stronger.
The main motive here is break the monotony.
