my real aunt and dad is having an affair i kn ew this since a month and so do my mum but they r pretending as they r not and he is screaming shit on me and blaming me that i caught him i m miserable
Do yourself and your mom a favour- SCREAM BACK and tell him itss his own fault! You got thisss! Do this and your future self will thank you for this. Stand up for your mum
he has some sort of male ego so anyone trying to explain him is pointless and my mum is ready to stay with him
i am here to talk if you would like
yeah sure
sis/bro listen - this isn’t your fault - “ulta chor kotwal ko daate” ye padha ya suna hoga… so now you have caught their affair and he is blaming you so don’t take it on your heart coz your dad don’t know what to do so he is just blaming & screaming on you, taking out all the frustration on you, He still hasn’t realised that it was/is who is wrong not you…
I don’t know what your age is but this is the time you must stand beside your mother and support her…
(this is a complicated situation coz you will have to consider many things before making a hard decision… things like do your mom earns or you earn anything or you both are dependent on your dad)…
we r dependent on our dad and my mum she is just with him because of us either she would had divorced him but she thinks after divorce she will be needy for some things so she will do the same what my dad is doing
ok understood your situation… currently there’s nothing you can do…
your parents are handling this situation in their own way. besides supporting your mum there’s no other role for you here…
It’ll be hard to accept what’s going on around you but eventually you will get used to it…
I guess you are a student - focus on your studies - grab a job/career - start earning and be Independent… (so when you start earning enough then you can ask your mum what she wants to do about her marriage).
All the best
and
try to stay calm…
thank you so muchh that helped me a lot 😃
Priya @unicornnnn
all of you know whose mistake is this. so you’re not the one who should be afraid.
yupp thanks
