My boyfriend asked me put my clothes off in a video call, I was comfortable and we both did stuffs. But afterwards he said he was tired and have been working for hours and he was losing sleep because he kept talking to me (he is currently asleep). He did say he loves me but since it was a video call I could see his face and I understood he didn’t mean what he said. He could sense that I was somewhat distracted/disturbed about something, he didn’t even ask. I actually ended the call because he said he wanted to sleep. I love him but I feel disgusted with myself. What do I do about this situation?
I am sorry for you to be feeling this way.
I think before you guys be indulging in the stuff, you should talk about relationship or where things are not going right. Maybe, talk about his work, or these things.
You should ask yourself if it’s just this once instance or there are other things which is getting connected this one and affecting you more at this point
Bhavna P. @bhavna_pande
Hey, it sounds like you’re going through a bit of a tough time right now. If what happened during the video call is bothering you, it’s totally okay to feel that way. Why not let your boyfriend know how you’re feeling? Share your thoughts and concerns with him, and try to have an open chat about what’s going on. If talking directly feels hard, maybe jot down your feelings first. And hey, it’s alright to lean on friends or even a counselor for support. Your well-being matters, and making sure you’re both on the same page is key in any relationship.
Take care,
Psychologist Bhavna Pande
Video call ke bad hi ?
In between vc
Is he shows interested in talking
Next time first have longer discussion. It’s always best you are connected emotionally over call before doing these things. Take care. Hope ur. Feeling a little better now
Everything done with mutual consent is ok but you have to figure out if he is loving you or using you. If using then leave him
icareforyou @icareforyou
um there is a difference between love nd lust, like i understand things happen with mutual consent, but you should know first if he is really into you or just doing timpass/or using you, i will say that you should have a talk with him about the relationship first, like talk about ur thoughts and the things in your mind, like have a transparent talk about how you feel nd try to figure things out, as communication is important in a transparent way :)
