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Diya Singh @rarechick

My bf had a rough past. He got cheated on by his last ex. It was really difficult for him to pull himself out of the mess.
We’ve been dating since 9 months and I feel he holds himself back because he thinks his past might repeat and i might just leave him. How do I make him trust me?

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Diya Singh @rarechick

He doesn’t talk about it. But i know it still bothers him. I wanna give him what he deserves but atleast he should communicate about his insecurities

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Diya Singh @rarechick

Yes hopefully he’ll do that. Till then i gotta be patient and just be with him. I’ll surely try to talk to him

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Anonymous

Ho skta h usko whi chahiye ho tb tak e loye tumhe backup ke liya rkha ho 🤷🏼‍♂️

Diya Singh @rarechick

No, i know I’m not his backup

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Anonymous

Tumhari bato se to yhi lgta h 🤷🏼‍♂️

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Hie

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Diya Singh @rarechick

Yeah there’s no pressure I’m just keeping patient for him to open up completely.

mani @mani12

Great thing what you are actually stay with him…try to make him feel special every day or a month by sending surprise.
About the confirmation part ask him what you can do to…

Diya Singh @rarechick

It’s like I try to put efforts but he’s sceptical in accepting what I have to offer

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Anonymous

Leave him…you can’t cure him… he’ll never trust you anyway

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Zealous @aidinghearts

9 Months is a good time for him to appreciate your such a caring presence. One cannot let go present because of past. you don’t need advice or change, he do. Ita high time someone educate him about life and importance of you in that life. I am proud to see how very much you are worried for him and seeking solutions. Involve someone who is from his family to make his appreciate your efforts and genuine bonding. 🌱🍀☘️🌿🍃

Diya Singh @rarechick

Well said<3
I’ve been talking to his best friend and he knows the case. He says he’ll make sure my bf realises that you can hold on to your past like that and impose it on every other person.

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Zealous @aidinghearts

Thanks,
Great. I hope things get better soon

Anonymous

You just have to give him some time and open up to him … Cause if that’s really the case then it will help cause I was/am like that only

Diya Singh @rarechick

Yup I’m doing that

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Neha Halder @90swaifuuuu

Well, ngl 9months are not a matter of joke. It’s a lot of time to understand someone. And decide that who’s worthy or who’s not. If it still bothers him, like the questions “why his ex cheated on him? " This actually means he still stuck in the past. He still thinks about that particular girl. Caring people like you are rare to fine. Know your worth hon”. Talk to him about it. If he can open up about these, specifically his feelings then this relationship is gonna work. If he doesn’t that means he doesn’t even trust you with your past. In that case i would only suggest you to step out from something like that. Wishing you the best and all the happiness all around the world. <3

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Kailash @king000777

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