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Abhishek @consecrate

Moving On

After a while the ๐˜ฉ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ต hurts less. You start to see reason, you begin to understand why they did what they did. Knowing that it takes two hands to clap. Learn, that not everyone you meet will stay in your life forever. Sometimes, theyโ€™re a passing character in a chapter of your book. Theyโ€™re to teach you a certain lesson, to help you experience different things in life- different emotions, to grow, and maybe to show you how to love yourself better. ๐˜๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ.

Some of these characters will be difficult to replace when their time has come to an end in a chapter of your life. But, it is important to learn and to see the necessity to let them go, even if you donโ€™t want to.

At the beginning, it will hurt. Itโ€™s the kind of hurt that will leave you crying till you fall asleep at 3 AM, puffy eyes, nose blocked and swollen. The kind of hurt that follows you everywhere - reminding you of the memories you had once shared at particular places you pass by. The hurt that leaves you thinking if you ever meant anything to them. Heartbreak is inevitable, especially, with the people you love. But, if itโ€™s one thing Iโ€™ve learned: you cannot have expectations. You canโ€™t expect them to love you back the same way you love them, with the same amount of intensity, and The way you love someone- that does not determine the way that person is going to love you back. You can have multiple connections with people, but that does not necessarily mean that they are meant for you, and darling, ๐˜ช๐˜ตโ€™๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ. This applies to both friendships and relationships, as we hate to admit it.

The hardest part about losing someone you love is not the goodbye, rather than learning to live without them. And what fuels the hurt is when you see how theyโ€™re able to move on without you. But can you blame them? Honestly, you canโ€™t. My grandpa always said โ€œ๐˜๐˜ง ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ, ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜ฑ๐˜บ. ๐˜Œ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ช๐˜ง ๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บโ€™๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜ฑ๐˜บ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ, ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ. ๐˜‰๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜ฑ๐˜บ.โ€ But what if I donโ€™t want to let them go? Would you rather be happy with someone, but that person does not feel the same kind of happiness with you? That ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ me, a lot honestly. The one thing people crave, itโ€™s love and being valued. However, when you ๐ฅ๐จ๐จ๐ค for love, to find that healing to fill that void theyโ€™ve left - I have found that it never really works out. Itโ€™s not purely genuine? I feel itโ€™s more of a forced connection because you want to fill that void, you crave that drug and rush called โ€˜loveโ€™ because itโ€™s a beautiful feeling. However, the best kind of love, something I find the purest, is unexpected love. Because youโ€™re not looking for something, youโ€™re not looking for healing. Sometimes, through the people we meet, we ๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ healing. And the world doesnโ€™t seem that bitter after all.

They help you get back onto your feet, but youโ€™re much stronger now. ๐˜š๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ than before, aware. Aware of how ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ can be so fragile and pure - yet it has the power to break, shatter and destroy. Wiser, as to ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ you allow yourself to love. โค๏ธ

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